I invited this guy for a threesome and now he is all over me. He's been asking to see me everyday but I'm married?.?

Question

It was originally my husband's idea and he talked me into it. The third party is someone I know. His excitement is overwhelming. He messages and text me all the time. I like him but he is too adamant. I feel like I'm about to have an affair with him because of his perseverance. What to do? My husband wants the threesome and this guy has no hangups (single, good looking snd busy). What do you think?

Answer 1

Is he a midget? I ask because if he is a midget, it might be easy to hide him under your bed. Then every night, he could crawl out from under and get on top of you and then do mouth stuff on you while your husband sleeps. Which one of the two men has the bigger penis? In the long run, just keep the larger one.

Answer 2

Should've thought about that before you decided to have a threesome..

Answer 3

If you don't want to do it, then there is no shame in backing out. At all. Similarly, if you ever change your mind, providing your husband and this guy are consenting, you can always rearrange it.



I would tell this dude to give you a little bit of space! I understand why he's excited, but his over exuberence sounds a little bizarre. I wouldn't be worried about him, safety-wise. If you like him and trust him and want to have sex with him, then go for it. Just tell him to give you a little space, is all.

Answer 4

sorry, but that is why threesomes seldom work out. somebody gets feelings, somebody gets hurt, somebody gets jealous. the list goes on. if you want to see him and have no concerns over how it might affect your marriage, then go for it. seems like you guys are in an open relationship anyways, so having sex with this guy is not that far out out of the question.

Answer 5

Be firm and tell him NO. Break off all contact with him and tell your husband what is going on. Do not hide this from him. You both need to establish the boundaries with this guy.

Answer 6

your husbands is probably gay, and if thats what he wants to do, then do it. you have to satisfy your husbands needs. thats the rules. but if your husband didn't tell you to sleep with him without him, then you can't. just do what your husband wants

Answer 7

I think you're definitely a hoho, Sweetcakes. Stop playing around with other men's schlongs and get yourself tested. You are probably a disease infested slutbag by now.

Answer 8

If you can have sex with him in front of your husband,then whats wrong with having without your husband...



Life is short,have a nice time

Answer 9

Tell him he is not going to get anything if he doesn't tone down,

Answer 10

Never with someone you know especially one that your tempted to cheat with. That is of course, unless your done with your marriage anyways, and it sorts of sounds that way.

Answer 11

It is good to have threesome!

Answer 12

well you have started the sexual adventure with this guy, you might has well carry on.. just have more 3 sum sessions involving hubby

Answer 13

I think that your marriage is over.