Question:
Has anyone left someone because they don't think they love them only to come back after time?
WOW1
2009-03-24 07:33:48 UTC
Has anyone left someone because they don't think they love them only to come back after time of not seeing them? My girlfriend broke up with me and I have decided to cut it cold turkey. I'm not texing or calling. She says that from one day to another we lost the spark. Is this possible and if you have left someone and they leave cold turkey do you ever want them back?
Three answers:
anonymous
2009-03-24 07:40:31 UTC
Some times people want what they can't have. If you ignore her she might want you again.

I don't really believe in 2nd chances. I am married now. When I was dating I only dated like 2 people twice. Its not worth it. I honestly believe if it does not work the first time it won't the second time, or third time, or whatever time. You will go back to your old ways. Same problems will arise. Finger pointing. All that stupid stuff. I think people should move on.

Some times you can remain friends with an ex, but usually not. Depends on the duration of the relationship. If you were with some one years, I think its best to cut ties. If you "dated" then for a very short period, like a month, its possible to remain friends. Not too many bad memories. People in short relationships usually break up because they don't feel the way about the person that they originally thought they felt. People in long relationships usually break up because of a lot of problems in the relationship.
oh_jo123
2009-03-24 14:50:58 UTC
yes it is hard to get over a relationship and the routines you had with this person for a long time it will be hard but I think COLD turkey is the right way to go
lilbit
2009-03-24 14:54:41 UTC
yes it is possible...sometimes you need to see if it is really what you want.


This content was originally posted on Y! Answers, a Q&A website that shut down in 2021.
Loading...