i need some advice...?

Question

me and my fiance are both christans and we've been together for over a year now. he asked me to marry him christymas morning and we plnned to be married on march 6th 2010.
im going nusts though... latley my temper is sooo bad i never curse and i have been. last night i was just thinking of how cool it would be just to just take off and leave my phone and just go out on my own and go see the world... my dream of forver now. im not scared to be married im 20 and hes 22 and im ready i know i love him with my whole heart and id never really be able to leave him i love him soo much and i cant wiat to start my life with him. BUT the other side of me is going crazy.... does this mean im not ready or is this normal? or what? idk i feel like im going nuts!

Answer 1

Well, you're a Christian, right? I too, am a Christian and I think in these type of situations the best thing to do is pray about it. Trust that God will help you make the best decision and ask Him to be with you both. I'm sure everything will fall into place, you could just be nervous about the wedding. Don't make any moves too fast, just be patient and wait for the Lord.



God bless,

Secret Agent Bucktooth

Answer 2

I think that you feel like you want to see the world because you're still 20. You sound like you're ready to commit yourself to him. So, for your honeymoon, ask your fiance if you can take a trip to Europe and visit all the different countries like France, Germany, and Italy. I personally have been to France, Germany, and Italy and they are some of the most beautiful places. The Eiffel tower is very romantic so that would work in your advantage for a honeymoon. You could go on a gondola ride in Italy. In Germany you could go to a vineyard. In this way you can see the world but you can see it with the love of your life. And yes it's normal to want to see the world. ha=]

Answer 3

You might be panic stricken at the moment. You and he are very young and when you stop to think about it are you suited for each other or

is there some doubt.

Have you gone out with other people? Has he? You might be experiencing some fear, what you have to do is talk to him about it and let him know that you are having difficulties with all of this.



Did you feel like this before he asked you to get married.

Do you feel trapped?

So many options write them down the good and the bad and others Consider what emotions are flowing through you.

Let your head and heart talk to you

Angelbless



SunShine Dream

Answer 4

You are not ready, especially if you're asking this question on yahoo rather than talking to your fiance. If you get married now, you'll never "go out on your own and go see the world... your dream of forever now." Be fair to both of you and call it off or AT LEAST talk to him about what you're feeling.

Answer 5

I think you need to wait a while longer. If you were really ready to take the plunge...you would have no doubts.