Is it too soon ?? please help?

Question

ok, my b.f is 15 and i'm 14 turning 15 soon. for valentines day he gave me a present. Then he propose and i said yes. we been going out for three years from 6th till 8th. I REALLY DO LOVE HIM, and he shows that I mean the whole world to him but shoul we wait ?

Answer 1

If you really do want help, as you say, you will listen and take the advise of people, like me, who know more than you do. People older than you are wiser for a reason. They have lived longer and therefore have more knowledge and experience and have the ability to predict the outcome of some situations based upon their combined life skills. And, this is why my answer is important because I have the wisdom that you could not possibly possess at your young age



You ask if you should wait. Wait for what? To get married? Whelp, you will have no choice other than to wait, because you are a minor and you have to be 18 years old to get married. There is a reason for that, you know. It is because it is a proven fact that kids your age do not have the maturity or the mental capacity to make adult choices for themselves. So, yes, you will have to wait. If you love each other, then it should last forever, right??



If you are asking if you should have sex. NO. You are too young and immature to engage in such activity. You are still a child and you are still growing in your teeth for crying out loud. You need to learn so much more about yourself and about life before living the adult life.



Enjoy your childhood while you still can because marriage is very serious and there are things about marriage that 14 and 15 year old children just do not comprehend.

Answer 2

Um, you are like wayyy to young to be getting proposed and all that stuff, that is grown up business. Yeah you have been together for a while now, which is good, but you should just keep dating and wait until you are older and more mature to be thinking about marriage and stuff, anything can happen from now until the time you turn 18, you grow up ALOT in that time span. You may think that you know it all now and you are mature and grown up, but reality is you are still naive and immature, things will change alot. So you really should wait.

Answer 3

A proposal from your man is nice, but in this case he has no visible means of support, nor does he probably show any for at least the next year. Minors having a job is serious business, with laws and statutes written about them in every state. Consider also your education. Your home, where would you live? Who would drive the car for your honeymoon. It is neat that you and he have consented to be married, but you should both wait until you have had a bit of life experience. Since you both have told each other that you want to be with each other for the rest of your lives, now all you have to do is date and continue to learn about each other. Good luck.

Answer 4

Yes!, your far to young. I know you've been together for 3 years but you guys haven't had time to grow without each other and that is crucial for a healthy relationship. It may sound bad to hear but from experience you cant just stay with the same person forever. Eventually you will always be wondering what it is like not having a relationship or what its like with other people. I hope i helped

C

P.S - Are you American?, I only ask because you have to be 16 here in the UK to get married.

Answer 5

Yes that way too young you should wait till you both get out of high school remember, marriage should never be rushed, if its meant to be you and your boyfriend will stay together and get married but i would wait there is no harm in waiting.

Answer 6

Just the fact that you are asking what you should do shows that you have doubts. Anytime you have doubts that is a sign that you probably shouldn't be doing something. There is a reason why God gave us a conscience.

Answer 7

I f it is true love waiting until you are at a legal age to wed will be your answer if you are truly meant for each other your love will mature too

Answer 8

you are getting married at 15?O_o i think you need to ask your parents if you are 16 but if you don't you need to wait till you are 18

Answer 9

I would suggest that your limited experience in the dating arena is a hindrance. Do wait.

Answer 10

Yes it is way too Soon Please wait and tell your parents!!! I agree with everyone else, marriage should never be rushed.

Answer 11

hunny, your have ur whole life ahead of you. by the time you finish high school you would probably already have another man. please wait. its the best thing to do! :)