H all, last year, I am married to a girl. This was an arranged marriage. We 2 both r in S/W development feld working n Hyderabad. After 3 months, I discovered that she has a boyfriend. Her relation was with him for last 4 yrs. Upon asking about the status of her relation with bf, she is answering that she has left this relationship b4 our marrage(b4 2 years of our marriage). Upon asking her in detail abt the relationship with her bf n detail, she is fearing to answer abt. Many times she is avoiding my questions against that relation. Most Unfortunately, her bf is no-one but my "Shadu"(my wife's younger sister's husband). Now I am standing in 4-square. What should I do? It is unbearable for me when i am thinking abt my wife's bf. At that time, I am hating her bf, my wife n myself too. I told my wife, not to talk with her bf. She is answering ok, but behind the scene, she is talking with her bf. Upon quering, she is answering no, but upon God's Promise, she is denying to answer. What should i feel? This is compelling to think negative. Her answers abt her bf relationship says, also symptoms says she had even physical intimacy/physical relationship b4 with her bf, bcoz she is not answering upon God's promise. To me my logic, I have two ways --{ 1) my wife will not talk to her bf anymore and we wil cut all the relationship with my "shadu". 2) I will leave her . }. What should I do ? Any otherway, if any plz ?