women only...does your husband call u his ole lady?

Question

women only...does your husband call u his ole lady?

Answer 1

My daddy called my mom his old lady. He had this raceroom (awesome, you'd have to see it) & there was a sign that said, "Sponsered by Rusty's Old Lady." My mom didn't mind it at all, as far as I know. If it does bother you that much, have you even asked him not to do so? If he doesn't care if you like or not, & continues to do it, then I just don't get it. What happened to respect? Or was it ever there? But anyway, I'm not out to judge people. I'm just answering the question. My husband doesn't call me that, but I wouldn't care one way or another. He does call me ma'am. But I like that just fine. Just remember not to dwell over the little things like that. Remember why you do love each other.

Answer 2

I am a wife, and my husband does not call me that, but if he did it would not bother me. It is just another term of endearment that men think is cute.....lol



Just like when women say, let me check with my ole man, it doesn't mean they are old, it just is a saying.....



Dee

Answer 3

Not anymore- he called me his ole lady once- only once, I had a really good lawyer.

Answer 4

the selection one guy. Im particular a woman president could have affairs like male presidents have. Having a numbering gadget is an ordinary and helpful thank you to maintain song of her men.

Answer 5

I am married to a wonderful man(4yrs now) and he does call me his ole lady sometimes..however he calls me his sweetheart..he calls me Sexy...he calls me My Love...its not as bad as you think.

Relax and Enjoy...Im sure he loves you...so dont get offended so easily! LOL..Take Care!

Answer 6

I agree with you but back in the day that was used as a term of endearment, also as a possessive term. Times have changed. Tell him you don't like it. Maybe he doesn't realize that you don't like it. Do you call him old man? Does it bother him? Bottom line is even if it doesn't bother him but it bothers you he shouldn't use the term. Good Luck

Answer 7

my ex husband used to say it all the time, and my husband now says it everyonce in a while. It don't bother me, in any way though.. Have you told him that you don't like it, maybe he don't even know that you dont. Talk to him about it...

Answer 8

No man has ever called me his old lady. I was married to a man younger than me and he did not even call me that. None of my boyfriends who have also been younger than me never called me this either. I always thought it was something a certain area called there women like more men from the country.

Answer 9

No he never did. He called me sweetie.

Answer 10

Tell him to stop using that term because you find it disrespectful

Answer 11

I have to agree with your other answers. NO! When he does slip into "guyspeak" and call me ole lady....I ask him "who's your new lady?" It gently gets my point across. I don't think he's doing it to disrespect...he just forgets that I'm not one of his buddies.



Now, before I get chewed up, I'm not saying ALL guys forget. I will not excuse nasty behavior...just maybe your old man forgets. (wink)



Tell him it bugs you. And if he continues to use the term you'll start calling him "stumpy" around his friends.



LOL!

Love, Ang

Answer 12

my husband never called me that no thank god. i would really hate it also. but the good thing about being married to the guy is you can ***** at him for calling you that :P just tell him to stop it or if he wont or continues call him something that will annoy him . to teach a man a lesson you have to give them a tasted of their own medicine sometimes



good luck!

Answer 13

If my boyfriend EVER called or thought of callin me his ole lady, his a** would be on the floor quicker then he could blink.....for one its disrespectful and two sounds totally horrible.....he calls me baby or sweetie which sounds so much nicer!!!

Answer 14

no way i hate that,tell him you don't like it.my husband calls me several different endearments and i like them all. i was married before and my teenage stepson introduced me like that,he said this is my dads ole lady,i answered nope your mom's the old lady I'm the new lady.

Answer 15

I am his wife. I don't even mind if he calls me his woman. I call him my man. However, if he were to call me Ol' Lady...he'd be my dead man.

Answer 16

When we got married 26 years ago, I told him he will NEVER call me his old lady, and I will NEVER call him my old man. If he ever did I would walk out the door. He has never called me that and I never called him my old man. When I hear men say that, I say "that is your wife, you fell in love with her, you married her, you had children by her, she is your wife, not your old lady."

Answer 17

I've heard it used.......not in awhile though... (don't really like the terms, either)



Reminds me of a scene in "Mahogony" when Diana Ross tells Billy Dee Williams: "I just want my ole' man, back"... (LOL)...

Answer 18

NEVER. That's gross. Where the hell is he from, the foothills of the Ozarks? I thought that was only a white trash stereotype on TV! My husband calls me 'babydoll'.

Answer 19

my husband calls me old lady and i am only 21 i thinks it is funny

Answer 20

I am known at his work as "the wife". It doesn't bother me I laugh about it. I call him "my better half". Don't take it personally. I'm sure he doesn't mean it the way you are taking it.

Answer 21

I'm was Mrs!!!Grrrr. I hate it too. He once introduced me to someone as...This is me MRS!! I went beserk and now its This is my wife. Just ask him not to call you it. My husband was totally unaware it bothered me.

Answer 22

Tell him how you feel calling you that name is degrading I'm sure there is a more pleasant name he can call you

Answer 23

No my husband doesn't call me his ole lady. He calls me his WIFEY, BOO, SHORTIE, HONEY, MAMI or SEXY

Answer 24

hon if u think that it is disrespectful ... u should let him know .... i am a wife and my husband calls me sweetie or dear.... if he would call me anything i wouldn't like then i would let him know ....

Answer 25

YES , and i hated it. i asked him to stop calling me that , it took awhile but he stopped. Unfortunately though he now calls me his bi*ch.

Answer 26

tell him girlfriend. i been married for 10 years and if he says sumpin i dont like i tell him.

Answer 27

yeash my husband cals me that to to everyone when he talks about me but he doesnt call me that when hes talking to me though.

Answer 28

know my husband calls me by my frist name.

Answer 29

mybe he thinks your old enough to be her mother