How do I teach her a lesson?

Question

I would like a good answer, not just a get over it answer. I just found out yesterday that my girlfriend who i love cheated on me, a while ago, and lied about it. at the time we had only been bf/gf for a little bit but she had already told me she loved me. I do believe she loves me, and shes apologized for it, and swore she would never lie or do it again. however i dont feel thats enough. i dont want to break up with her. I just want to teach her a lesson so she wont even think about cheating or lying to me again. If anyone could give me some ideas, i would appreciate it. thanks.

Answer 1

Dump her and straight away date another (you can ask one of your friend to help you find a girl who would date you for a few days - Fake date) then wait and see how she reacts. She will be probably heart broken but you'll be teaching her a lesson...

Answer 2

Oh brother. She apologized and probably was sincere.

So you want to teach her a lesson. Ever hear the saying, "2 wrongs don't make it right"?

You want to deceive her. Lie to her. Hurt her? Play games? You will just create a new problem.

Forgive her if you really love her. It is no good to grow old alone.

Ever think hey, the guy she cheated with may have been her boyfriend and you came on the scene and swept her off her feet?

Answer 3

Ummm, well, either you forgive her or you don't, Sounds like you don't. You can't teach her a lesson. She is either faithful or she isn't, My feeling is, she'll probably do it again if she did it once. Cheaters are what they are and that doesn't change.



You're going to have to either forgive her and move on or break it off. But you can't teach her a lesson. How can you? She knows right from wrong. Sounds like you just want revenge. But I think you're just setting yourself up for more heartache.



Never understood why people take cheaters back. I mean, loyalty is just so basic in a relationship. Without that, what do you have?

Answer 4

I'm going through the same thing at the moment with my wife and its real f@#ken hard to figure out. look all i can say is that if you love her don't seek revenge but I know what you mean about it not feeling enough cheating on her wouldn't help it would make it worse maybe let her think that you have another girl that likes you and wont leave you alone or tell her it doesn't feel enough and tell her to prove her self in a way. or just find the f@#ker she cheated with and beat the snot out of him that would make me feel better. if you need to chat just message maybe we can help each other.

Answer 5

You should ignore her completely for a few days and make her realize how much she actually appreciates you. Go out with your friends and have fun! It will drive her absolutely crazy and she will come back begging for you. Sometimes people don't appreciate what they have until it's gone. If cheating on her will make you feel better then go for it, it might be what she deserves and you may find someone better that will treat you right. Being faitful to someone you love isn't that difficult if you are a caring person.

Answer 6

you have got it all wrong! there is nothing you can do that will stop her cheating or to teach her a lesson! whatever you do will be seen as a separate incident unrelated to revenge for that! if you had broken up with her which would have been the best way to teach her a lesson you wouldnt be having these thoughts of avenging her, you would have avenged her by dating someone better

Answer 7

Threaten breaking up with her and say if you want to continue the relationship i need to know it will be worth my time and not end up with me finding out something you did wrong again.

Answer 8

It's useless to get revenge on her. What good will come out of it? Nothing.



In my opinion, you should just leave her and stop wasting time on her. But since you decided to stay with her, you just have to lay the incident behind you and move on. Getting revenge on her is childish and will leave to no good....

Answer 9

tell her you want an eye for an eye, so ask her if you can fool around with another girl to get even. other than that you either have to let her go or accept that she did it and accept that she is capable of doing it again and take the risk.

Answer 10

Being unfaithful and a liar is part of someone's personality and you cannot teach them any lesson that will mend their ways, unfortunately.

You either forgive, or end it.

Answer 11

Challenge her father, or brother, to a duel.

Good Luck! :)

Answer 12

wow. sounds like true love to me.

Answer 13

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