PLEASE could someone answer my question?10 points?

Question

There is this guy I got to know online( he is 22 and I am 19).

The problem is, well he is kinda different from other guys( or I might be wrong:D). Well usually in dating sites and stuff, guys ask for you picture after a week or so, right? But I know him less then a month(maybe 22 days), but he hasn't ask for my picture, planing to see me out, or my number yet. I know your going to say he is a 50 year old guy or a creeper your chatting, but I know myself he isn't. Well I know he is going to college or he couldn't name that stuff I asked, and I have some other more reasons .)

Another problem I have is that he chats with me for a week so nice and leaves me lots of messages when I am not available, but then he gets unavailable and doesn't leave even one messages(even if I IM him or stuff he wouldn't answer) for 2 or 3 days and comes back saying like so "sorry I was busy so much these days and he would be nice and act interested again"( as the day I got to know him, he is nice with me for couple of days and then ignores me, I mean is not available for 2 day or so, then gets back.)

Well I am kinda worried, the truth is I like him( the story is long but I shorten it, and only named his negative points, sure he has lots of positive points:D), he told me once what I think of him but I didn't say anything, but he said he thinks I am really cool, and likes me( he is extremely polite). Well I am shy myself, If I know he is interested in someone else I would like to leave him alone and don't bother him and myself( stop liking him), but I don't know exactly what he is thinking about this( could you please tell me how to find if he is interested in me or someone else, I am shy so I can't ask directly:D).

So please what do you think I can do to find out, and what do you thin,k could he like me and have interest in me??? Please the truth you think 10 points:)

Answer 1

Due to the fact that he messages you a lot, whether he ignores you or not, says he is interested. Maybe he really was busy or forgot to log off. But if he wasnt interested at all he wouldnt still be talking to you. :) TIme will tell. He may ignore you on purpose trying to play hard to get, there fore suggesting that he wants you to chase him :P But just take your time and see where it goes alright

Answer 2

I am using online dating as well, for a month I think, but I go nowhere with guys there. LOl

You guys just send messages back and forth right? Have you met up with him yet? If not, it doesnt count anything. Wait for him to ask you out for a meeting up or date (idk), and then you can tell later

Answer 3

I don't get a good feeling from your questions detail. I would leave him alone.

Answer 4

hmmmm alright....do one thing.tell him that u r in love with a boy.make him feel jeaolous.tell him that u went to party n date n all...if he reacts as if nothing wrong in it then he dont love u but just like u...

Answer 5

ok but i want my 10 points

its sounds like he's just not sure wat to do and is just trying things off the top of head so he can talk to you.Try and meet out with him some more and relly make sure he's not a creeper.But make sure he really dose like you first.

Answer 6

i want 10 points but maybe he is easily distracted and forgets