Do you think there is really one person you're made for?

Question

ok im not asking this question like all that cheesy stuff on the net, but asking in all sincerity, how do u know when you've met "the one" and if you think there is "one" just for u or is life just about finding someone who you are compatible enough to live with for the rest of your life

i have one example, if you guys we have "something" please answer or does this sound like just another friendship?

she's cute and pretty at the same time, everyday we talk at least two hours with each other, no secrets within each other, and she can always bring me up even when im sad..we listen to the same music have so many similarites..i know sounds like the perfect relationship, but whenever we talk, she calls me her twin instead of a guy, and she talks about other guys with me too..so im pretty lost, but she has talked bout the "future with me" and how we could be good together

any thoughts or opinions?

Answer 1

I have a best friend and a guy from my town(whose out now)just like you and your girl.They both thought of themselves as twins too(they were in denial it was love more so my best friend since she was deeply in love with each other)so your friend this girl is in denial shes in love with you or trying her best to get over it since she doesnt want such a special friendship to go sour or kaput.wait a while shell realise it and accept it when she can no longer deny it as my best friend admitted it.she accepted and came to terms with it then she told that guy she was in love with that they werent twins or sis-bro it was love so now things are back to normal.you continue to be the same friend same person to her as you have always been and wait awhile.

Answer 2

I don't think there is just one person for everyone. I also don't think you should spend your whole life finding that person.



I knew I found the one for me when I couldn't picture myself choosing to not be with him. The thought doesn't enter my mind too often. If I do picture myself without him it's always alone, never with anyone else. This doesn't mean he's my "one true love" or any of that silly fate nonsense. It just means I've committed myself for a life time. Likewise, I couldn't picture myself being a professional wrestler...



I think she likes you and you two would probably be really great together. As long as the guys she's talking about are just that, other guys who she shows no particular interest in.

Answer 3

Yes, there is really just one person you're made for, and do not ask if this is the person or not when you meet her.

If you ask, it means:

(*) it is not yet time for you to know

(*) or, she is not this person



Unfortunately, it happens that some guys look for his one person during whole life, and she never comes ever. It is because they were very focused on the question and signs.

Sometimes destiny requires you to make very weird and initially not explainable by logic, steps. It's because your person could be even in another state or even country, and you have free will to decide if you able to reach her, because you did not know whether it is about her at all. It could be initially a part of something totally different, business trip, for example, or something else.

Or it could be "invisible" girl under your nose, you never paid attention before, too, by the way, till something unpredictable/unexpectable, or even, regular, but non-detectable before, happened. Or she could be your current girlfriend, too (but not in her current state and your current state of mind, for sure).



Nobody could help you! Do not believe the tapestry of advices. There is no universal expertise. Still, universal truth exists, but nobody among humans could tell for sure.

Don't believe me either.

I believe in what I said, because I found my one person, and it was not easy or in the way I expected it gonna be.



Good luck!

Answer 4

Yes, i think there is a really one person you are made for. i am with my boy friend for like almost 6yr. we are engaged now, and will be married in two yrs. i love him so much, and i dont even think about being with anyone else. and we have great understanding.

You and ur girl, u guys understand eachother that well then go tell ur how u feel about her. Because for a successful relation shio, understanding is the main thing. U guys have same likes and dislike which is GREAT! GOod Luck. I hope u guys have a bright Future Ahead.

Answer 5

I love this question because it analyzes one of the most profound elements of relationships: soulmates.



Soul mate theory is that your soul belongs to someone else out there in the world. That is the one person for you and if you don't find them, then you'll be sad somewhere on the inside for the rest of your life until you find them. You may still get involved with rewarding relationships, but it won't be the same.



The problem is that soul mate theory is a mathematical impracticality. There is no "one" person out there-- unless you believe in God. If you believe that God influences your destiny, then it's possible that there may be a soul mate for you. No God. No Soulmate. (becuase if there were no God and there were a soul mate, chances are she'd be in China or India with the rest of the population there...)

Answer 6

I believe in soulmates. when i first met my husband, i thought he was a jackazz and didn't talk to him. Ayr later and many nights just being friends , sitting till 5am talking and watching cartoons. I finally let him make a move-after he got rid ofhis then fiance that was trying to control his every move. I wasn't going to be the reason they broke up, so now, 5yrs later, we have been married with a house, kid and a cat.

I absolutely love him with every breath I take and would give my life for him. He is also my bestfriend that i tell everything to and he always lifts meup when i am down and makes me feel like a queen.



IF you feel you have that with this girl, then she could be the one.

Answer 7

NO!!! 5 Tips for a man

1. It is important that a woman helps you around the house and has a job.

2. It is important that a woman makes you laugh.

3. It is important to find a woman you can count on and doesn't lie to you.

4. It is important that a woman loves you and spoils you.



5. It is important that these four women don't know each other.

Answer 8

Well.. do you like her more than a friend?? If You Do.. then go and tell her how you feel.. She probably.. likes you but if she talks about other guys she is just trying to make you jealous.. people do that.. and i know its really annoying but you just have to deal with it.. and by what u are saying.. seems lyk the perfect relationship.. and if you are.. then quesiton your self.. if you dont know whats happening go and tlak to her.. go and tell her ask her what's the relationship between you guys.. be straight up.

Answer 9

When you meet the one that you love you "WILL" know it. There will not be a doubt in your mind from the very first time that you meet her you will want to spend every waking moment with her and never want to hurt her. You will be able to get those butterflies in your stomach even after being with them forever and each and everytime that she kisses your it will be like the very first time.. Sooo if this is how you feel then it must be TRUE LOVE My friend..

Answer 10

I don't believe in soulmates ...I think we find someone who you are compatible enough to live with for the rest of your life.like you mentioned before.. fall in love with and try to maintain the relationship together... because you might find someone else. seems that you fit together more than your current mate!!. this really happens for lot of people.

Answer 11

Sounds if this woman a little confused about your relationship and maybe how she feels about you,

She still talks about other men. But talks about her and you in the future. See what I mean.

If she felt the same way about you she wouldn't be talking about other men.

Answer 12

yes i believed in that.. when i was with my ex boyfirend i believed we belong together and boy we even look like each other we have the same habbits and we like the very same things and i supposed we'll be great in sex but it didn't work out i guess he got all scared of coommitment and ran i still believe we might get together once again

Answer 13

There's one out there who is made for you. I mean your other half! You will know when the right time comes

Answer 14

yer i think there is one for everyone just keep lookin, she sounds really nice and well maybe she is the one just keep lookin then you will find her or maybe she is starein u in the face. x

Answer 15

if she calls u her twin,and shes thot abt ur future together..then yea uve found ur soulmate!

cheers!go out and celebrate!

Answer 16

Yes i think there is a for real soulmate.

Answer 17

i think your pretty close to being in the friend zone... if i was you, and this is just me.... i would ask her this question. just sit her down and talk to her...

Answer 18

Yes, but sometimes before you meet that person, you already become unavailable. That's my problem!!!!!!

Answer 19

you know that golden rule when you see it...well i know it when i see it...i experience it and i feel it! i have to say this is definetly destiny. good luck and pursue it. i think you have definetly found love!!!

Answer 20

yeah i think so

Answer 21

yes. this is destiny