how can one overcome his inferiority complex?

Question

how can one overcome his inferiority complex?

Answer 1

Simple! Try to find out what are your good qualities and strenghths, remember things that people said good about you. And remember that we all are children of one God, hence we are all unique and have same qualities as God. No body is superior and nobody is inferior, we are all equal. Stay away from people who hurt you or make you feel inferior

Answer 2

Some people are by nature insecure. They are worried about everything, their personality, their dress, their behavior etc. They feel always put down by others. They always feel inferior. This can be cured by proper counseling, and by getting a chance to do something praiseworthy and proving them to be equal to or superior to others.

Answer 3

There are various reasons for inferiority complex . Inferiority complex comes when one always think negatively and compare with others becos of less in knowledge , personality , appearance , communication and also becos of certain unexpected circumstances . The best way to over come from such complexities are



1) start taking the things in a positive way and keep positive attitude

2) start telling yourself as “ I am the best “

3) read books of positive thinking , increase your knowledge ,

4) do exercise daily to look smart which makes your appearance goods and attractive Wear cloths that suites best to your personality and to your work/ profession.

5) Don’t let any body to let you down. Be confident always

6) Increase your hearing / listening and speaking power .

7) Meet people with high in personality , confidence and knowledge . This will surely have good impact on your thinking .

8) Face problems with full dignity & confidence . Make out the solutions rather than linger the problem.

9) Last but not least Trust in yourself and God.



These are just small guidelines . One must get benefited to certain extent at least.

Answer 4

Get well dresed. In fornt of mirror in your bedroom say aggressively below lines:

1) I am the best.

2) I can do it and I will do it.

Answer 5

Be bold and participate in most of your important stages in your life. Be open to everything. Be positive and be optimestic.

Answer 6

Best way to overcome inferiorty complex is love and admire yourself,because no one in this world is perfect and by whom you are getting frustrated ,definitely he is lacking in something than you(definitely you are having some special trait.I believe everyone on this earth comes with certain qualities,unique to him only)

I am fatty,not very good in english,not very handsome,belongs to rural background and studying for last 12 years

So how unfortunate I am?

Answer 7

Inferiority complex developed from the surrounding in which you are grown please first try to overcome such bad experience and try changing your self slowly. One day definitely you will success.

Answer 8

Dear Friends,



Generally, from our childhood we are recognizing our talents & knowledge only from comparison with others. This is a bad one. If we compare with others, we can find more differences. Because, that is nature.



3 Rules:



1. Avoid compare with others. Defiantly, it gives difference. It can not be avoid.



2. Develop yourself. Find out your interest and favorable area and go head. You do not wait for others. Improve your knowledge. This is not a self-fish. This is self-development.



3.Read more, learn more & Do more. Avoid Expectation from others. It will good habit for your feature. It gives good strength to face failure.



We can overcome inferiority complex.



Feel Good things & Do Better things.



Regards,



Rajagopal

Answer 9

Practice of Pranayama and meditation clean and purify body and mind and ultimately he becomes self conscious awakening his intellect. Therefore, such regular practice as an important part of his life will empower him to overcome his inferiority complex and any other obstacles in his life.

Answer 10

only by positive approach in each and everything.why do you think yourself inferior.mankind is by itself superior to all other beings on earth then what?

Answer 11

by having self confidence in himself/herself

it is the best way but for that as we have to do many efforts coz its not so easy task

Answer 12

First, be clear about your values. Do you value money, people who laugh all the time, wear the right clothes, drive the right car, go to the right restaurants? If yes and you don't have the means to measure up and don't find life so funny, no wonder you feel inferior. But your sense of values is not correct so you must change it.



WARNING!!!!! If you feel inferior because of some advertising or some show in the media that shows you a make-believe version of reality, the proper reaction is not to feel inferior but to admit that what you see is NOT reality (no matter what the show pretends to be, like "reality" TV or some such).



Do you feel inferior because of race, or your height, or some other physical trait? But you know that all men (and women) are created equal, don't you? The US constitution says so.



If what makes you feel inferior is something you can do nothing about, then you are probably mistaken about your inferiority complex.



If, on the other hand, you feel inferior because you do not have a certain skill that you wish you had (whatever that skill may be, it all depends on your personality) then all you have to do to get rid of your complex is to learn seriously and acquire the skill.



If you make a good, honest effort at self improvement you will have good reason to be at peace with yourself and your achievements will prove your value and in this manner your inferiority complex will disappear.



The only acceptable reason to feel inferior is when you know deep inside that you are not living up to your potential as a human being. Then you know that you are not doing your part in the world and are, so to speak, betraying your fellow human beings.

Answer 13

Many a time the inferiority complex intensifies from the surroundings. Your friends, family members, relations and more.

Check your friends. When we're in groups, they usually find a scape goat and start making fun which demoralises and that's were the inferiority complex creeps in. Same goes with the family members too.

Change your friends circle who talk positively and give constructive criticism that's good for progress.

When it comes to relations, see if you could change the topic and bring in some positive thoughts that motivates everyone. If not move away from that place when such conversations take place.

Remember all these people who make fun of you, criticise and who contribute to this inferiority complex are worth nothing. They're not going to help you when you're in trouble. They are only trouble makers. So please check your friends and surroundings and change for good.

Answer 14

See trimming the branches is no solution as new/numerous leaves will again grow. So the best cure is to strike or cutting the roots so that neither the branches nor the leaves could not grow. Now what is the root of this complex.The root cause of inferiority complex is comparison because with comparison how do u know that u r inferior or not. If one can live without comparison he/she will never feel inferior or superior. But then u will ask that if we don't compare we may stagnate? But one has to first live without comparison only then this question is valid because once u start living without comparison this question will automatically become invalid.

Answer 15

Being aware that one has inferiority complex is the first step to overcome.



1. donot make comparisions / bench mark your self with others.



2. wherever you are develop the habit of improving the knowledge in your particular area of activity and also improve your general knowledge.



3. Do not feel shy of failures or humiliations. You should be able to communicate with people and get to know things that you originally do not know.



4. There is no specific medicine or overnight solution. One has to decide whether to live like this or improve oneself. This is attitude problem and only you can change it.



5. Find out whether there is any good Yoga institutes around your place. Learn meditation and pranayam which will help you to transform.

Answer 16

There is one golden phrase as a best drug to overcome the inferiority complex .memorize this phrase always in your mind when ever u feel dull." If you cannot do then who can?" this means just think in the mind that the thing that you are going to do can be possible by you and you only . have confidence in the self take the name of the almighty and don't forget that no one is born intelligent. Intelligence comes out only when one explores the self the best with a zeal to achieve some thing. U will rock

Answer 17

Superiority Complex is just a latent form of an Inferiority Complex & vice versa. See we set unrealistic targets for ourselves, we believe in some way we are way better than others, and then when we sometimes are not able to achieve it, we suffer from something called “Performance Anxiety” (and that’s not only true for in bed). This leads to an Inferiority Complex. We believe that we are constantly being scrutinized and judged and critically at that. Now the best way to tackle it is by conditioning yourself into thinking that everyone is better than me but I don’t give a damn. I don’t have to impress people. I don’t have to live by other’s dictates. I am what I am, TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. I sincerely hope this helps you, because it certainly did help me.

Answer 18

Inferiority complex is caused due to poor understanding of your own self. To fight against inferiority complex,

-First know yourself.Once you identify yourself, you get to know where you lack and also you will know how much you have within you.

-Second step should be to make up for your short falls - This can be done by learning from others.Know that every person is undergoing a continuous learning process at every given point of his life which makes him a better person next moment. And you are somewhere in the chain and a little more effort can take you to heights.

-Third step is to know how can you make use of what you possess.

And if you are successful in three steps you could tell yourself that nothing in the world can stop you, as you are what you are and you are unique.

Answer 19

try to do the things that are well within your reach. Do not ask any body for any suggestion, even if you loose. Go on trying different methods. At one point you will succeed. This will boost your self-confidence. You will start to look at things with an analytical eye. Observe the problem as a third person would. Game. You cannot afford to loose. Again you have won. Feel proud that you are able to achieve. Do not care about criticism. Critics would look at you with awe and wonder. Now you will ask, "What is meant by inferiority complex?" Thats all.

Answer 20

one feels inferiority complex only when he thinks that he doesnt have something that the other person has.and only if he is not ready to face the realities .so if one really wants to overcome his inferiority complex then he should first see himself and think about what you have and the other person doesn't have .Then you will feel better .Suppose the other person is having fair complexion than you and the persons like to talk to him only and ignores you many times .Then you will definitely observe some proud in him or her that only makes you to feel bad and inferior than him/her but you see only the complexion one has got. and the gathereing around him .Inspite of this , you think deeply and make it sure that what is more important means what you have if you have good behavior then it works great and is everlasting .If you talk the persons in a attractive way and with giving some respect to them , you will certainly get good approach by others , because no one is perfect in this world so you are not the person who cant do anything .so you observe yourself and pickout your goods skills and try to show it to others in a better way, you will definitely get a good response by others and If once you will feel that you have done it will help you a great to overcome inferiority .and in facing anyone around you .

But you keep some patience because every change takes time .patience works wonders

Answer 21

Everyone has his own (+) and (-) points. No one is perfect. Keep this firmly in your mind always. Secondly, concentrate on your plus points and further strengthen it. Try, to the extent possible, to convert your minus points into plus points. But once you are able to achieve mastery over your plus points, you yourself will notice the change; the inferiority complex would have vanished naturally. Remember, the feeling of anxiety or tension while meeting a new person is also there in the person who is meeting you for the first time also. So, take the lead and impress. The fact that you are aware of this inferiority complex itself is a good sign. Awareness leads you towards success. Have confidence and do your part boldly and to the best of your ability. Rest can and can only be your success and pride!!!

Answer 22

Inferiority complex : Earlier it was a problem but to day the situation is changed. One should follow to come out from inferiority complex :

Build up personality

Think positive

Change good hair style

Dress net and clean

speak politely

Mix with everyone with self confidence

Do not think that u r inferior to others

If u r staying in one single room, look at JOPADPATTI & thanks GOD that u r in built house though it is a single room.

Answer 23

There are specific steps that you can take to handle this:



1. Stop comparing yourself with others- accept that you are unique as is everyone else and it is this uniqueness that makes this world interesting.



2.Understand that you are here not to think about yourself but to put your uniqueness to use so as to make this world a better place.

Try Volunteering a little of your time regularly to help others this gives a kind of confidence and self worth that nothing else can.



3. Measure your worth by how much service you have been able to give rather than what you or others think of you based on physical criteria or abilities. There is always some way in which you can make somebody else's life better.Whatever little you do makes this world a better place to live in.



4.Take public speaking classes and get in the habit of unabashedly expressing yourself- explore all various ways you can expres yourself other than just speaking eg. art,dance,martial arts--- anything



5. Know that you are in this world not to get but to give-the more you give the better your life becomes. Give your time,knowledge,attention--every situation will show you how you can give and such an attitude will not allow any sense of inferiority or superiority.



6.The next time when you are hit by feelings of inadequacy think of the roses and the trees and the animals--they do not compare themselves with other roses or trees or animals--they seem to be just happy to be alive.



7 Genuinely try to be loving towards others and less judgemental and you will find yourself loving yourself more and criticising yourself less.



Try this and let me know if you are not a changed person ---.

Answer 24

It is very easy to overcome one's inferiority complex for that just you have to think positive side of your life. if you are suffering from inferiority complex of having not a handsome money, then start thinking that u can earn that much income if you use your entire skills, available resources as well as right opportunities then it can be overcome. secondly if you are suffering from inferiority complex of having black skin. then start thinking that great people like gandhiji and nelson Mandela are known for their works not for their skin colour, though they have suffered a lot in this aspect. if you are thinking that others can do well then yourselves then let them know that you can also do the same thing in better manner than them. all these things have to be overcome because no body is born great, the people who r successful in their respective fields are only by their hard work and sincerity.

Answer 25

Hi,



Inferiority complex for what i.e is based on ur mindset or day to day worries. Here are the tips to overcome interiority



1. Get up early morning mingle with the collegues

2. When u go outside wipe all thoughts related to ur personal

3. And daily practice i.e stand infront of the mirror and check while communicating how ur body gestures and facial expression will change i.e if u r in good mood how facial expression will change and u have to sent the signals to the brain to control that expression when u meet somebody. Becasue not body wants to keep company with sad

Answer 26

complexes mostly occur 99% of the time when people make you feel bad and if that keeps on going on and on and on there comes a time when you start believing that in your self even when deep down you know that you are alright. it is all circumstantial, sometimes because you can not be away from those people even if you wanted too because you have your problems (financial mostly). the cure is, firstly get indipendent and make your own little world to start with but do not make any haste secissions and be foolish as that could be the same. read the books of guidance like the Vedas, Bible and The Quran, the book that has opened my eyes and made me believe once again in my self esteem after i was broken and had complexes is the Quran because the sourse of it hasent changed and is intact. ask GOD ALMIGHTY for guidance and soon you will see that you are happier than ever. all the best.

Answer 27

Its all about thinking. If u think that ur great. u can be great. if u think that ur the saddest person in the world due to some problems. Then, u have a problem. Change ur thinking power. Whatever u do, start enjoying it. Take the example of Shahrukh, He always says that I am great. Why, Its not that he is Over-Confident. It motivates u to go ahead,bcz u have said that u r great. Always involve in work. Do something. Positive thinking and implementing it can help one to overcome his inferiority complex.

Answer 28

Through "ANAPANASATI" Meditation which was taught by BUDDHA 2500years ago. Meditation is the only way to tackle any sort of physical or mental disorders. It can also be said as "Meditation is the one stop solution for all the problems". All type of Inferior and superior complexes will be vanished through meditation. There will be a greater Inner harmony by practicing this.

After his Enlightenment, Buddha started teaching this Meditation to one and all. Meditation means "Simply observing the breath in any comfortable sitting posture". By being with breath, the mind becomes empty. And when mind is empty, the huge amount of Cosmic energy floods inside the physical body. That Cosmic energy will heal all sort of diseases.

Ancient wisdom has been Re-discovered again. The Cosmic energy will be recieved thrice more when Meditation is done inside Pyramid.

Pyramid Spiritual Societies Movement,India has been dedicated in spreading this "Free Pyramid Meditation" to the whole of the humanity across the globe. To know more about Pyramid Meditation visit our Web site ...... "www.pss.org"

Answer 29

The Golden Mantra is - "Stop comparing yourself with others!" Thats the first rule of the game. Then you have to instill some self-confidence in yourself. Self-beleif is also very important. Before others trust you, you must start trusting yourself that what you are and what you are doing is right!



It is difficult but not impossible. Do mix-up a lot people b'coz normally people with inferiority complex are introverts and avoids mobs and people. If you are that type, come out of it - start socializing and try to be positive about everything that you come across rather than being negative.

Answer 30

Just be yourself and don't be ashamed of it! Complex includes the other side of the coin also and there is a hidden streak of superiority which you yourself are not able to satisfy with your achievements or assets.World is like that, you read me right my friend ,world ,destiny , providence you name it ,it is not fair, true! But we are born to fight and achieve something in our own capacity. There are no short cuts ,if they come along fine otherwise forget about them.Just think what you could have done in the last five minutes that you felt inferior ,and there are a dozen of such time periods in an hour! You can widen your horizons but dont compete,there always appears somebody with better knowledge or awareness which further depresses you! Involve yourself in something useful however trivial it is and gradually complex things start turning simpler ! Not easy but certainly possible!

Answer 31

I Know It's really very easy to say that one can overcome his/her inferiority complex. But Reality is Different As i have experienced this situation in my own life it's tough to overcome this Inferiority complex But not Impossible For this We need confidence,Willingness & Support. It must overcome as u get the moral support of ur near & dear once. Then,u see how the life welcome u & makes u happy all the time. Give some time to yourself and it really works..............

Answer 32

Every time think little and do work maximum.In this way specially I overcome many types of inferiority complex. S R M

Answer 33

I am sure , after going through all 362 answers you must have

overcome ur inferiority complex.

U must have realised that it is not difficult to overcome this complex by following some simple tips.

It is as simple as changing your old clothes.

Give it a try now and stick to it daily.

Answer 34

An inferiority complex, in the fields of psychology and psychoanalysis, is a feeling that one is inferior to others in some way. Such feelings can arise from an imagined or actual inferiority in the afflicted person. It is often subconscious, and is thought to drive afflicted individuals to overcompensate, resulting either in spectacular achievement or extreme antisocial behavior, or both. Unlike a normal feeling of inferiority, which can act as an incentive for achievement, an inferiority complex is an advanced state of discouragement, often resulting in a retreat from difficulties.



Early work in this field was pioneered by Alfred Adler, who used the example of Napoleon complexes to illustrate his theory. Some sociologists have proposed that an inferiority complex can also exist at a wider level, affecting entire cultures. This theory, which is controversial, is known as cultural cringe.



Classical Adlerian psychology makes a distinction between primary and secondary inferiority feelings. A primary inferiority feeling is said to be rooted in the young child's original experience of weakness, helplessness and dependency. It can then be intensified by comparisons to older siblings and adults. A secondary inferiority feeling relates to an adult's experience of being unable to reach an unconscious, fictional final goal of subjective security and success to compensate for the inferiority feelings. The perceived distance from that goal would lead to a "minus" feeling that could then prompt the recall of the original inferiority feeling; this composite of inferiority feelings could be experienced as overwhelming. The goal invented to relieve the original, primary feeling of inferiority which actually causes the secondary feeling of inferiority is the "catch-22" of this dilemma.

Answer 35

I am of the strong belief that there is no such Inferiority or any Superiority complexes. The feelings of such complexes are self created. One should be proud enough and show courage in what complex he possess. The only requirement for you at present is to take away your feeling of inferiority complex if exist, from your mind and thinking. I consider this is the remedy to your anxiety. Best of luck.

Answer 36

Inferiority is nothing but a complex created one's own mind. It is created by one himself. There are few points, if followed, the complexity will not arise:

1. Never compare own competance with others for complex reason.

2. If comparision is necessary, than take it in positive manner to improve your own skill and not for feeling inferior with others.

3. Try to involve himself with others to sharpen own skills, otherwise isolation may create inferiority.



If some one suffers from inferiority complex, than to overcome from this problem :

1. Always think that you are the best and when you find good and best, always be motivated with the good that if is not suffering with complex, why I should?

2. Don't keep himslef in isolation and try to mix with others and try to fill up the gape of complex.

3. motivate himself by reading stories of the achievers, who were nothing before their achievements.

Answer 37

Hi rajesh ,



There can be humpty number of reason for having inferiority complex in any human. As you grow old and after the age of 12 yrs we have to learn upgrading the good qualities like helping poor, sharing your eatables with ur brother or sisters or if not give some poor cousins if you have had , by giving away our possssions we start expandingn our horizon of thinking as we grow older it keeps helping us to come out of the complex as we know how we grew ourselves. Every action of ours should be always with contentnt heart and so we learn to become a contented person which gives us rather superior feeling than an inferior one. I f u happen to have any art or sport u might have lotss of friends were we can compare ourselves for being better placed than them. This is how we should learn to get across the inferiority complex by self appreciating and upgradinng our inner capability or any kind of art or any other talents which one should sit and analyse. This is called intorspection which helps us in upgrading our inert values or energy. If one is god fearing and contented where he will become any kind of complex!! it should be always a thanks giving life if we live along with our parents, our kith and kin with all the parts our body are perfectly placed. Lets be more useful to the society than grumbbling around our personal grievence which we would never satify ourselves with whatever we have got or achieved. Forget being a jelousy person and rejuvenate with kind heartnedness and happy for being a human as it is the hieghiest of our livingebeings. bye wish u all the best to get rid of the complex.

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Answer 38

There are several reasons for one to have inferiority complex. When a person starts comparing himself with others and finds himself inadequate with regard to sex or studies or any other parameter, he developes inferiority complex. A person having inferiority complex should be convinced to think that he is absolutely normal, and there is nothing wrong with him. The best way is to consult a wise man or a psychiartist.

Answer 39

Think, Every body is equal to one.

No one is more than one.

Then think reason for a complex in a socialistic world.

All are the creations of one and the same.

There is no question of a Superior or inferior or complexities whatsoever.

Answer 40

To overcome inferiority complex..should know that no one is perfect and should not think much higher or lower about yourself. As everyone is a learner in this world should not consider circumstances seriously. Everyone should know their weakness and the strong points. So, Don't stress yourself to be perfect all the time..this way one cannot be inferior about himself all the time.

Answer 41

Every person in this world is different. Inferiority complex comes in when the person is low in confidence. Avoid being with people who make u feel inferior instead be with people with whom u r comfortable and who make u feel that u to are important, and who have a positive attitude.

Answer 42

My dear,



All of us have some sort of complex at some point in life. There are a few reasons why one has an inferiority complex.



1. we grew up in homes/surroundings where we were constantly critisiced/scolded/rated/compared.

2. we let these scars of our life to live and relive in our minds and thoughts.

3. we let ourselves believe that we are inferior to other.



*Each one of us has a "genius" or a "genie" that gives us an edge over the other person. It is either an artistic abiliity or scientific ability or an athletic ability or some kind of creativity. Only we know what that "genie" is. No one else. Your purpose in life is to figure out that "genie" and capitalize on it.

*Accept your genius and your flaws, your abilities and your limits. The reason you are a genius is to be productive. The reason you have flaws is so that you can not rely only on yourself, but on your fellow human beings.

* Karma - if u think/say/do good, u will definitely get it back in in this lifetime itself. "what goes around comes around"

*Perform random acts of kindness - pay for the meal/blanket of a poor child, give up your seat for a pregnant/old person....

*Once you are really productive and passionate about life, you won't have time to worry about others. you have only time for yourself.



-Hope this helps.

Answer 43

Inferiority complex is definitely a complex, alright. but over coming it is even worse. well, my I.C. is really high. But when i realized that i shouldn't let that ruin my day, i took a few baby steps. and now, i can say that my I.C. just can't get the better out of me. lol

1. stick around with people whom you're comfortable with.

2. always look your best: act as if every moment is an occasion to celebrate and dress accordingly.

3. wear a smile on you face: even if you think people are finding you funny-looking, just smile back and walk away.

4. If someone does make a rude-comment about the way you look, speak, etc, pretend to find it funny and erase it off your mind.

5. Developing your confidence isn't easy but if you tell yourself that there's nothing wrong with you, there isn't.



good luck

Answer 44

Inferiority complex is a health problem.

This may be physical or mental.

If physical,go for exercises,sports.

If mental, go out and interact with people.People you never knew earlier.

If you have gone down so much that you have lost the will to do anything about it,then start building up your willpower,slowly but surely.

Now cheerup,it is only a foggy condition which can vanish in no time,if the right type of environment is given.

Answer 45

Hi,

one can overcome his inferiority complex by believing that there is goodness within him and he is capable of achieving things like anybody else. a person should focus on his strengths n build up on them and use them to overcome his weaknesses. U should not fear ur weaknesses or fear past failures. Failures happen only to teach u a lesson n make u better.

Answer 46

One can overcome his inferiority complex by knowing his

strength and weakness. By working on his weakness to

convert it in to strength one can easily flee from complex.



Don't Ever compare yourself with others because all are

equal. Try to make U as a Self Motivated Person. if u cant

then who can ? if other can then Y cant U?

Answer 47

Inferiority complex for everyone should be present in an equilibrium respective to Behavioural aspects like Positive Ego, Positive Attitude, Good Conduct, Oneness etc.



Feel of Oneness among our neighbour prople, friends, colegues, eveyone should be present. The maximum scarcity of this leeds to Inferiority Complex. Feeling Inferiority leeds loosing of people, even our own relatives or family members.



To overcome this, we need to change our attitude of thinking. One has to realise that in this world no one great among others in every aspects, everyone has their own unique greatness. He has to try mingling with people and feel one among themselve, make friends and don't ever try to thinking about leading in the group by making other one fun or target. By Simplicity, Politeness, Kindness, Helping Nature only one can win the hearts of others. The criticizing or show-off of the Inferiority (Greatness) in the group will not ultimately hold the Long-Term leadership in the group. Only Friendly nature can do this at long-term.



So One has to realize and make +ve attitude to build relationship can make one to overcome Inferiority complex.

Answer 48

Every one is unique in its own way as God has made us special so just take the very disturbing thought that you are inferior or not at par with some one with whom you are being compared… Every human has some plus and some minus points. What is needed is just to over come those minus and concentrate on those magical plus and just watch the drastic difference! You can not humiliate yourself unless you yourselves are determined to do so. Just think that you are also the wonderful creation of the God and get rid of the thought which forces you that you are inferior. One should be compared in all matters before jumping to any conclusion. Just stop comparing with others and 99% of the problem is solved !

Answer 49

Actually this is a million Dollar question. Psychologists may have perfect answer for this. Ye,t I thought I should share my angle of personal experience.

Whoever reads this, pl note that this is not a suggetion. But, sharing of an experience.........



I was a timid, reserved person from birth itself. Born in a village, I moved to a Metro at age 8. Below average in height and complection, I had no friends. My reserved and withdrawn nature made other friends and classmates ridicule and even neglect me. These added fuel to my burning desire to become normal. My only strengths were, my sports abilities and educationally studious nature.

This is where, I won over others.

Yes. My School won in Inter Schoosports events, as well in few Quizz Competitions, due to my participation. Naturally both my teachers and few good natured classmates took notice of me.

By coincidence, I happened to play a GoodSamaritan in an incident involving a schoolmate. The parents of that affected student commended me in front of my teachers as well as my classmates. This actually boosted my Self-cofidence.

However, it took nearly three years for all these actions to culminate.



Soon, there were many events to follow.



The lesson is ...

1. Be patient, your time will come

2. You have a hidden Talent. Realise it. Whenever the oppurtunity comes make use of it. Such that others notice you.

3 Be kind and Positive. It is not only you who are facing such problems. There are many many around you who also come out by such chances.



Good Bye.



Balakrishnaa Vasudevan

Answer 50

hi to one and all.

we al know that nobody in this world are born with the wings.

each and evry one are equally important.

inferiority complex is 1 aspect where it drags the people down to ones lives.if u r having positive thinking, then y should u feel about the complexity.

set some goals in ur lilfe,and put ur maximum effrorts to reach them.always hav the positive attitude.and 1 main thing is never compare urself with anybody.if 1 person is good in some qualities then u might b good in other which the others doesnt know.

never loose hopes on ur life.

actually i too hav the inferiority complex.i hav overcomed this to much extent coz of my friends.make good friends.

enjoy ur life.study the autobiographies of great persons.we can learn many things from them.

1 small quotation to all-"TAKE TIME TO LIVE,BECAUSE THE WORLD HAS SO MUCH TO GIVE".

BYE ...

KEEP SMILING ALWAYS...!!!!!

Answer 51

You have to be brutally honest with yourself to overcome an inferiority complex. Acknowledge and accept yourself. We are all human - we have good and bad. How others and we ourselves percieve ourselves, depends on whether our heart and soul are good or not. Making mistakes, bad choices is human but flaws in character are more than human fraility and define us. We should be able to stand in front of the mirror and look ourselves in the eye and feel proud of ourselves. If we can do that, we have no reason to feel inferior and we can grow or train ourselves out of any inferiority complex with single-minded resolve.

Answer 52

Well there are mental blocks, which will stop you to go out and meet people. And inferior person feel more comfortable sitting in home and with family. Firstly start reading novels, academic books etc, which will contribute more to your living. Develop passion on that. This is because passion is one which is lacking in inferior people and they think lot when they are idle. Need to feel yourself busy with passion. Try to see yourself talking in 3 or more people always. Atleast never leave a chance to be in group. Accept your inability and open up, when you are in group. Once you have confidence and free in group then understand you are with yourself. Looks easy ...as 1, 2, 3. If you dont feel simple, remember keyword 'responsible', to not to get irritated and anger with anyone.

Answer 53

Mix a dash of Superiority complex with the inferiority complex, To get a magic blend, You get a new product, this will surely hide the inferiotity complex. Also donot under estimate your self always. Because the very negative thought " i cannot do" the barrier is just within your mind. Get rid of it. Always fear not, This formula is unisex.

Answer 54

here, is a review of what she herself posted in a website, i hope, this may help u:



success: key 2 success is self-confidence & overcoming inferiority complex



Let me tell you a brief story. By the time you finish reading this quick article, you will see the key to success.



An inferiority complex, feeling not good enough, leads to less than desirable results, even failure.



I asked a doctor the characteristics of an inferiority complex. She said, "Symptoms can be attacking others, speaking negatively, propagating gossip and doing damage to self. A large number of people, who look like they have self confidence, suffer from the inferiority complex."



The key to success is to overcome the inferiority complex, either your own or someone else's.



After speaking to a convention of men and women in a large city, I moved from stage to an area of the auditorium near a sign saying, "Lori Prokop Book Signing."



At the autograph table I was greeted by a large number of people and signed books when a visibly intense man asked, "Excuse me. Lori Prokop, may I speak with you privately about self confidence and dealing with an inferiority complex?"



I answered, "Yes. Can you wait until the crowd has gone?"



With relief, he politely answered, "Yes, Lori Prokop, I would like that very much."



Once back stage, he began, "I need all the self confidence I can find. I have to achieve the biggest business deal of my life. Lori Prokop, if I have success, it means the world to me. If I fail, I'm done for."



I proposed he relax. Few situations or deals are so final, although they may feel to be the only key to success. An important step is to know if he did succeed that was fine. If he didn't succeed, there would be other days and deals. This is the beginning of overcoming an inferiority complex and achieving self confidence.



He continued, "I have a real inferiority complex. I just don't have the self confidence I want. Here I am forty-five years old. I've been plagued by my inferiority complex. Lori Prokop, I listened to your speech tonight about self confidence. I want to know the key to success you, Lori Prokop, would recommend to help me achieve self confidence."



"There are three steps to take," I answered.



"First step is to discover why you have these feelings. I have a free report at my web site that reveals the 12 Rules of Abuse, which are beliefs people learned as children that keep them from achieving what they want as adults.



"You must approach the inferiority complex and self confidence problems looking for a cause and removing it. This may require self-analysis or assistance of a counselor or therapist.



"To help you and be of assistance now with your immediate problem, I will give you my own Lori Prokop formula which works for me. Starting today, I want you to repeat this powerful phrase I will give you. Tomorrow, I want you to say it throughout the day. Do you agree?"



He replied, "Yes, Lori Prokop, I agree."



I said, "Here is the Lori Prokop Formula."



"I am free of worry about how to figure things out. God does that for me. Together, as partners, God and I achieve success in everything, whether overcoming obstacles or going straight to the top."



I continued, "You can substitute words for what God is to you. The main message here is that you are not alone. Your Life Partner is powerful and on your side always."

Answer 55

For those who really want to deal with the problem seriously



1stly there is no inferiority or superiority complex, and yet man is suffering from complexes and here is how one can overcome this problem



i. One has to know for oneself that one is having a complex and not just go on enquiring how to deal with it w/o doing anything. In fact the perfect solution is just stop doing what you have been doing so far i.e stop comparing yourself with others. Or give up too much of self thoughts

ii. Find out what is the root cause of it? Whether it was a childhood rejection due to comparison by the parent’s teachers etc but the fact is that they them selves are suffering from such complexes So, it’s a cunning way to dominate others no matter who the other is even their own children or who ever will do. Drop comparing yourself with others because, only comparison gives rise to such complexes inferior or superior.

iii. But every one wants to become superior over others and the fact is that nobody is superior therefore nobody is inferior either. Why don’t we understand such simple thing?

iv. One has to drop ambition seriously thus wiping out all the complexes & why only inferiority complex is to be dealt with why not the other i.e superiority complex because both are the 2 sides of the same coin. Alone inferiority complex cannot exist as they both coexist together. And to be v .honest it’s a fake coin thus both of its sides are fake too. Can a coin have 1 side real & other fake? Its a different matter if the fake coin appears real... but then, both the sides will appear real.And the solution is to discard the coin it self.

v. In order to overcome this, can one just go on amassing wealth, property, power, women etc? Will it not push the very problem itself deep down into the subconscious. and when any of this so called achievement is at stake the complex is bound to re-surface again.

vi. By changing ones negative self talk won’t work anyway but by avoiding self talks / self thought by dropping comparison all at once. once U drop the comparison what can you have in hand to think about your self?

vii. Why is there fear lurking whether this so called society will accept or reject. When existence has accepted you totally.as it has accepted every thing and every being on this planet? Why is there such craving for social acceptance? Why?

viii. Let there be the deep understanding that existence rejects nothing and the so called society which is merely superficial, trivial absolutely negligible, accepts nothing It has not even accepted viz Christ, Buddha,Mohammed and the rest of the great ones Why should it accept you & me So, for those who have fear of being rejected by the society should drop out of the society and then there is nothing to be fear about. This psychological Fear is just fake.

ix. There is nothing called absolute in this world everything is relative and there fore the fear of acceptance or rejection is a big lie. Because when the masses reject, fear lurks in but the fact is that all of us are mesmerized from our very choldhood and the illusion is deep



There fore one has to give up comparing with others so as to get rid of the complex itself.

Existence will tale care … Existence will take great care.

Answer 56

It start from the misunderstanding-himself and the social set up- and created by the society- unatural-illusional thoughts- there should be a correct understanding about the oneness- i.e., the word day is not opposite word to night- day has differant phenomenon and activities- and night has differant- can you imagine- continous day time- no or continous night- but society has taught both are opposit now the confusion starts- likewise- love- hate,poor-rich.gain-lose,anger-peace,unger-satisfaction.....once you understand these dimensions -are in differant but not against- each other- one has to pass through both the experiance with the real awarness - see the lotus grown in muddy pond not in the italian marble floor- the mud feeds the liveliness to the lotus-when the lotus seperate from the mud it is dead-lost its livliness- see it is the chain of action cycle of life -the lotus belongs to mud-and the mud also a blend of soil and previously bloomed flower- once you understand these then all thoughts will clear only we need to know the tecnic to convert negative energy into positive energy in a peaceful way- that s all- those who have no self-respect- and non acceceptance themselves as they are....they always entangle with inferiority complex- as soon as they start to look themselves then .....the insight will fetch him to the very blisful world - not far - it within you choice is our to choose.....

Answer 57

Discover the GOD within you.Behave like GOD.HE do not have any Inferiority Complex.This belief will help you to overcome Inferiority complex. It's simple as that.

Answer 58

By feeling that once presence is very important. we can overcome the inferiority complex. Since Life is a mixture of both good and bad. one need to bold to face any kind of situation.

Answer 59

Hi, you can overcome inferiority complex by building self esteem. 1st learn to respect yourself, the outside world is a reflection of your inner self. If you hesitate or shy away from other it reflects that you are unhappy inside. So the key is accept yourself and automatically you will get confidence and you wont have any fears or complexes.

Answer 60

Two good ways to overcome inferiority complex is first, to acknowledge your strong points or strengths and second, to understand your weaknesses. Maybe its not possible to overcome all your weaknesses but one can definitely address the important issues that really matter like self-confidence.

Answer 61

Be confident when you do something. Your self confident will help you to come out from inferiority complex and even though you go wrong sometime you would be able to face it. Ask all your doubts to concern person no matter whether he is younger or elder to you. Think broader, also keep in your mind that everyone has their own demerits and decide that you are no way lesser than others

Answer 62

“Work along with others as a team members and always appreciate other’s work and efforts. Always build a balance in self analysis and self consciousness. Participate in group activities, so that inferiority complex can be over come to some extent. Comparing you with others unnecessarily also build inferiority complex”.

Answer 63

Just try n try to acheive something in life, try to be as busy as bee and get success & acheivement this can only remove inferiority complex. One should not imagine less than others, becoze God has made all human beings equal, just c to all in-borns for examples, it is the efforts of individuals which makes him/her to achieve something in life.



Ways to Remove inferiority Complex:-



a) Remove idleness in daily life

b) Do something instead of nothing

c) Try to be associated with poor people n spend sometime to know thier common problems, this will motivate u to be something in life

d) Tree climbing, swimming, racing and other sport activities will boost u up and thus u can easily remove your inferiority complex.

Answer 64

There are certain things that shall allow/help a person to overcome inferiority complex.



1) Start believing yourself, and 'I can do'.

2) Stay high on self-confidence and will power, always

3) Be versatile, and attempt anything - to your best.



The above is not chronological.



Overall, if above pointers are sustained, then 'overcoming' is definite.



Cheers!

Answer 65

Inferiority complex comes from within, not without. If someone is aware of his inner strength, that person can never have inferiority complex. Inner strength is comprised of mind and spirit. We should always try to strengthen our mind with the help of our spirit. That is the whole purpose of life anyway.

Answer 66

If you want to be happy, see how many ways you have been blessed by Lord, it is more likely that you will feel inferior when you see anyone has more than you what you want. But, if you believe that Lord will give you what is best for you and as per your prayers and efforts and luck too in this world and hereafter, you will be satisfied. SATISFACTION is the key and utmost desirable thing. Even the most prosperous and wealthiest can be most unsatisfied person and even the poorest guy can be the most satisfied person. SATISFACTION is not linked with materialistic assets. Work for it, pray for it and it will make you rise high and higher, if Lord wills.

Answer 67

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how can one overcome his inferiority complex?

Answer 68

first try to understand why you feel inferior, if it is because you are not beautifull then try for makeover, if it is you dont have good figure then make it good , if you are not educated then educate your self , if you have any other problem you have to work on it then only you can overcome your inferiorty complex otherwise you will never come out of your inferior complex.

Answer 69

Dress up smartly... Try to built up ur self confident...n make others envy u... make them feel inferior.

A simple exercise stand in front of a mirror and talk to urself . I know it sounds funny but thats the best thing a person can do to increase his confidence level.. n overcome his inferiority complex..

Answer 70

Being himself and try to be a humble human being and having a mind for serving others. It is only a status of mind. Due to inferiority complex, nothing will gain but to loose the relation, society, cooperation etc. only. Why should use mentality and energy to loose some thing on this competetive world. One should accept himself about his overall weakness and behaviour of negative thinking.

Answer 71

A person with inferiority complex can overcome by strengthening skills,upgrade his inner confidence through concentration on his aim & answer the difficuilties with a smile with keeping in mind that the great GOD is with him.

Answer 72

Book title: Overcoming the Rating Game: Beyond Self-Love, Beyond Self-Esteem



author-Paul A Houck..



pls read ths book..he has gv number of examples hw t overcome inferority complex, gain self esteem..the book has 100/100 points and all rated it as best selling..



pls go ahead..thr r lot more parameters behind ths inferiority complex,,all d best dude..

Answer 73

Inferiority Complex basically roots from denial of self to love and be loved, and these notions are formed as we grow up. To change it we need to first

1) Accept that we have a problem

2) Start changing our thought process - by constantly reminding ourselves that we are loved by all and we love all around us. We accept ourselves and others the way they are.

3) Make minor changes in your daily routines and pamper yourself and make your self feel important - cause at times we become so outwardly focused that we forget that there is a child in each one of us.

4) Be Positive & start developing optimistic views of situations.

5) Refrain from Self Criticism.

Remember that Beauty doesnt live above us or below us - it lies within us. We deserve all the goodness in this world and we emit goodness all around.

God Bless Everyone!!!

Answer 74

Inferriority complex arises when one feels that the other peron is superior to him or her. Always the peron has to look at his or her positive things. Most of the people who feel that they are inferior has so many good qualities. They look at only the positive qualities in others and negative qualities in them. It takes some time to look at negative qualities in anybody, but where as the positive qualities are apparent. As one knows oneself better, he or she would find the negative qualities more easier than positive qualities. So, I advice is to look at the both qualities. over a period on time one would become confident and overcome inferiority complex.

Answer 75

Complexity is the factor of a person who is having lack of confidence, maturity and having problem to respect other people ideas or thinking. To overcome complexity the person should cultivate in giving respect to the other people ideas, ways of thinking and should learn from them by avoiding dicrimination of Age, position. The person should try to be friendly with all. Gaining the confidence by the practical experience will also encourages.Maturity will depends on broad thinking. So the person should cultivate slowly above three things slowly with curiousity and encouragement. It takes time but sure he will overcome the problem.

Answer 76

hi, on my point of view actually its really easy to overcome inferiority complex.for that u should follow the below ones,



first u must believe yourself that is self-confidence.

second-give respect urself.

third-make some priniciples ,u should obey ur priniciples that means obey urself first.

fourth-make a goal

five-work and work to achieve ur goal



if u follow the above one then automatically u recieve respect from others consequently u can easily overcome ur inferiority complex.

Answer 77

Its a relative concept.To get rid of inferiority complex,u have to think positively backed by some reality touch in your thinking process.If u you keep your face towards the Sun,you can't see the shadow. Its a bit harder but over practise everything will be settle down.Try hard in the beginning...

Answer 78

one should believe in his ability to overcome shyness and inferiority complex.you see that each individual has some capabilities and some qualities through which he can take on the world.in my opinion a person should believe in hiself and do right things in such a way one come overcome inferiority complex

Answer 79

No body can give advise or giving guidlines to others for overcome of their inferiority complex.



Only experience can be shared.



In my experience, if we understand the purpose of life, there is no need for inferiority complex. Try to find who you are by assume you are sitting on the moon. The answer is you and us are equal.



The problem is solved.

Answer 80

the best way to overcome inferiority complex is to find out the best in him. by knowing is strong points one can easily overcome this problem

Answer 81

instead of putting the question to some one else ,sit and think to yourselves. I believe there is no set standards to overcome these kind of problem.first you have to understand clearly that what makes you inferior. my humble request to you take a pencil and paper, keep your mind open ,write the incidents where you are loosing your confidence level.analyse the root cause for that problem.and take a confident hard steps to overcome the problem with determination in mind. until and unless you improve your skill set its difficult to overcome it. i always believe inferiority complex is mainly because of lack of skill set and self esteem

Answer 82

just make a review on great personalities. every individual has got both inferiority as well superiority complex. We claim ourselves as inferior or superior depending on the degree of our achievement. It's just the difference in degree.



Everything is acheived by constant practice. try to think only on your acheivements and improving ur skills. The moment we concentrate on ourself without comparing with others, any type of complex will disappear is my personnel experience.

Answer 83

well the first thing is too feel good about you....just follow these ten things properly you will find it easy to feel equal among others....

1. Know yourself

2. Respect yourself

3. Love yourself

4. Affirm yourself

5. Trust yourself

6. Accept yourself

7. Show yourself

8. Stretch yourself

9. Share yourself

10. Transcend yourself

If you have anything to ask please feel free...I will be happy to help you out...take care.....have fun....just remember the best thing to come out of your inferior complex is to think that "ALL ARE FOOLS AND STUPIDS AND YOU ARE THE ONLY CLEVER PERSON!!!"

Answer 84

The best way out when you feel so, is to take a deep breath which will help you relax& make you calm.It will also help ur mind to get relaxed & think positively. When facing such situation just be yourself & have faith in your abilities.When you deal the situation in same positive manner,gradually you will grow in confidence & inferiority complex will just remain as a term in your vocabulary.

Answer 85

1. One can overcome from his inferiority complex by adjusting with others thoughts and ideas, every one have different way of thinking, one can boost himself high and the hearer we feel inferiority, one is getting more awards, prizes, best titles, we are hasten from our family members, society and bad look will also bring us inferirority complex, so don't think you are not having any ability within you, you are the worst,waste,and useless person in the society, there is a great source hidden in your inner soul give a freak of fire to it, it will automatically get fire and the source of light give the brightness not only to you, but also to your neighbours, the sources within you find,find,find and give his life, you will win inferiority complex,not only inferiority complex but also in life.

Answer 86

by understanding that everyone has got individual talents and that no one is superior or inferior to anyone.



2. Understanding that this complex comes only when one compares with the others. So by stop comparing and accepting oneself as oneself, one can overcome this complex.

Answer 87

even if u are not the best, there is no reason why any one should feel inferior. B'cos nobody is perfect not even God, there is so much suffering in the world, plus the natural calamities and those people who are not phisically or mentally fit, even such people try to overcome their conditions. So we should think and behave in a very moderate and cool manner so as to treat ourselves with pride and confidence as we would to anybody and everybody. And always remember one thing -do not hesitate for no reason and do justice to yourself by respecting your own personality. Confidence gives you inner strength to co-op with yourself and others, and say I M Possible, and give a smile to yourself.

Answer 88

What I feel is inferiority Complex comes as in when you start comparing with Others.

Don't Insult yourself by com pairing with others.Start doing the things at your own. This is how you will get self confidence.This is the key as I am the benefitter

Answer 89

Well!!!fine... coming to the point... first let me start with an example.. "If I stand at the edge of India's border (at kanyakumari) and say to people that 'India's border is over here'....that is inferiority & an pessimist....and turnig over back and say that 'India's border is starting from here' this is an optimist thinking & overcoming that bad ineriority complex."Let me say that only way to overcome this is best to think and go along in a positive manner...Will u stand before yr mirror and say that i'm ugly...definitely not...every man or woman even if they look dull, they think to become more bright before the other sex. This is how the manner to overcome inferiorty...

Answer 90

please dont compare yourself with any one in this world, if you do so you are insulting urself.. this are the great words by Allen Strike... and it means a lot to people like us...



We come across so many people in our day to day life and every one have their own weakness. But we only think about our weakness but do we think to overcome it.

If you feel inferior just analyse if it is worth thinking and if you really feel it cost a lot try to overcome it. Am sure you ll never feel inferior.We are all superior in to each other in some or the other way.

Answer 91

To overcome one's inferiority complex, he should first respect himself. Then only others will start respecting him. Once we are able to gain respect from others, our self esteem will improve and then the inferiority complex will gradually dissolve.

Answer 92

One has to jump into the state of superiority while he or she feels inferior.it's not a easy joke to think superior while one suffers inferior.its needs a lot of determination to overcome inferiority since it occupies our mind very easily and makes a person dull.lack of confidence results in inferiority and only by building up confidence strongly by auto suggestions can eradicate inferiority.

Answer 93

Jesus Christ is Lord, You know we have inferiority complex cause we believe we lack virtues necessary for confidence, but I tell you I have realised that the more you lack virtues and the more you dont care of this lack and go about doing everything an individual with virtues would do, you shock people and instead of lookin Gawky you become really cool and different and people begin to notice you.

Answer 94

Action: "By Helping Someone", who is in desperate need or distress. This may be your own friends or someone who you come accross in your daily life. It can even be animals on the street or your surroundings that are in a bad condition.



Effect: This will make you realize how important each one of us can be. "You" are needed in this world, and being a human being there many things you are capable of doing, which can be very uplifting for many. If you are doing these things, how can you be inferior to anyone? In fact, you prove yourself to be better and uprighteous than those who take themselves too seriously or look down upon others but do little to make others' living better.



When to start: NOW!!



What do you need: A good will and some strength.



What will you get: Heartfelt thanks from "them" and recognition. Best of all CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF :-)

Answer 95

one develops complex when he thinks too much or too less than himself. to overcome inferiority complex, one should just think whatever he does is right.Only when he gets a doubt in what he is doing ,will still pull him back. Face every one straight to eyes and speak out from heart, you'll keep going well. this is out of my own experience..all the best

Answer 96

you know I was treated like dirt all my childhood and way till my early twenties ...to a point till i decided I will take it no more



thats when i threw away my inferiority complex and turned from a nice guy to a rebel and somewhat cynical and bitter, you know many say i have gone psycho but the fact is I am now enjoying life and feeling much better



there are no takers for nice people, and forget concern, people dont even have mercy to nice people.



just dont give a damn to others and try to pay back those who troubled you without reason, with the same coin



you will feel much better and improve your self esteem

Answer 97

you can overcome inferiority complex by telling yourself that you are the best, and an equal human being as all the people around you.

Answer 98

Hey Frnd,



Just LOVE urself. Coz Universe Gives U Wat u Think For In ur Mind, Universe is ur Genie. Love Urself , Ppl Will Automatically Love U. U R A Mirror For Ur Life. Watever Image U DisPlay For anything U'll Get Same Pic From Everywhere.

So Love Urself, N Celebrate A G8 Victory Over Ur Inferioirty complex

Answer 99

well one must recognize that one feels inferior and then try to get to know why and how to overcome it. It could be lack of confidence or exposure. So he can talk to someone close to him about it and start working on it by doing things more confidently and thinking positively. All is well that ends well. "I can do it come what may" should be his motive.

Answer 100

by building the confidence we can overcome inferiority complex. One can't have everything in this world. look at those who don't have those quality that u have.

Answer 101

I was 1 of its worst victim.but the 1st step i took is to STOP BROODING over it.

The 2nd Never compare wth others n hence neither feel inferior nor superior to anybody.

The 3rd, concentrate on HOW WE THINK bcz it is the single largest factor which builds up our character n personality.So develop the habit of viewing everythg positively,even in the events of miserable situations.

For example:Suppose some1 abuses u in anger or makes some undesirable comment, then instead of feelg bad abt urslf or him,,just think his mood may b upset or he is still not fully mature.but dont develop any malice aganst him.

This is POSITIVE ATTITUDE. So hve Patience n give some quality time to urslf. You WILL automatically overcome.

Answer 102

First work on easy job that will buit up confidence than do some difficult work. Repeat several time than compare the work with others whom you feel superior. Now you will not have inferiority complex.

Answer 103

Speak to as many people as you have everyday.... Just say Hi..and start something irrelevant... if they try to comment on your view, justify saying something or bluff something. At some point of time, unknowingly you might have got humour sense. But be careful that you are not hurting anyone. thereby you can first get rid of fear with strangers in few months. Next thing, you will get some points in the discussion in a table with your friends. you may find some valid points given by some of your friends. try to raise that same topic with different set of friends. justify yourself, you will gain confidence in yours. then... automatically you will get rid of so called inferiority complex.

Answer 104

hi, first do a selfintrospection why r u having inferiority complex and if u r having this inferiority copmlex bycomparing yourself to others then forget about this becaz everybody wll have positive as well as negative side to his/her personality....so by comparing ur self to only one side of personality will make u feel inferior instead try and think about ur good qualities and ofcourse work on ur negative ones ...

Answer 105

The foremost thing which one should keep in his or her mind is that every individual is unique in some or the other manner. So their is nothing to feel inferior about. If you feel inferior about any thing then buddy its the time to stop cribbing about your life and start living it with what you have to the fullest of your ability.



NEVER EVER UNDER ESTIMATE YOURSELF!! GIVE UR 100% to whatever you do.... which would in turn help you face any consequences in the future. "Be POSITIVE"

Answer 106

I personally think, we can get rid of the inferiority complex, if we follow certain things



We must follow the process called trial and error, we should not think that i cant do, or i cant make up the things.

we should do things with confidence wether it goes wrong or right but we must make it .

Gradually it becomes a habit to attempt to make things then we can learn the things accordingly.

Answer 107

inferiority complex is a disease which saps away ones energy from inside and makes him/her nothing. but only remedy for this disease is coming out of the shell and mingling with others and least bother about others remarks about u. slowly and steadliy people will start accepting u and will pass positive remarks which will help you in curbing the weak circle of inferiority complex.



this is a weak circle which is made strong only by our attitute. if our attitude is strong and positive this circle becomes thinner and thinner and one day it vanishes out of sight. but the first step should be yours to curb this. no body can help u , but only can guide you. so u and only u have to take all the courage to break this open and come out to see this vast world under this clear blue sky.

Answer 108

Inferiority complex is reflection of one's sense of insecurity towards them selves.......one can over the same by:

1. practicing Grpaho-therapy (very power ful tool)

2. NLP Techniques also helps to a great extent.

3. Yoga a powerful tool.

4. Sahre ur complexes with a counsellor and see if they have logic cure them.......and STOP Comparig ur self with others.....ur r u and Just u........

Answer 109

One can overcome his inferiority complex by gaining self confidence . This self confidence can be gained by doing Meditation.

Answer 110

well...people talk about many things but when it comes to reality it is totally different. the best thing is that-look up for the reason why u feel inferiority complex. if u get the reason then sort it out. Accept urself as u r. if u lacking one thing, make urself strong in other.

Answer 111

One feels inferior when he thinks he is lesser than others. Firstly try improving yr knowledge on different topics, appearance, yr physical atire etc. start telling yrself u r no lesser. Meet different people and start a conversation. Build up yr personality and keep improving. Soon u will hear compliments and start loosing complex. If u have and bad childhood experiences pl consult doctor.

Answer 112

inferiority complex comes only when you feel bad about others and when you feel jealous about others. But when you treat everyone as same as you, then this un-mannered thought called inferiority complex will be gone. trust others and try to have the healthy completation with everyone. i hope i am right.



regards

vinay.s

Answer 113

First of all, look into yourself honestly. Search out the strengths you have; then try to make use of them for any purpose. Never compare yourself to others but feel yourself proud to do so. Don't think of the best and never expect for beyond limits. Smile is the best weapon to reduce inferiority. Feel yourself the BEST while doing anything. Never try to show the over smartness but the true guts inside you

Answer 114

Well So many answers -- i could see on message board I would say every answer is any individuals perception-and experience -

the question says HIS inferiority complex- if it is meant only for men - then Only way is to be BRAVE in what ever you are doing- GUTS IS GLORY.

Answer 115

Hi, Take a deep breath, close your eyes, concentrate on your breath. You will have control on your breath. Think about yourself. Open your eyes. Take a paper and write the following for yourself. Belive me, this will work. Write the question : WHO AM I ? Then write the answer also. Then again write "Who am I ? " Then again write the answer.Continue till you gete the right answer.



Example:



1) Who am I ?

I am a daughter.



2) Who am I ?

I am a student.



3) Who am I ?

I am a business man.



4) Who am I ?

I am a driver.



5) Who am I ?

I am a owner of a company.



6) Who am I ?

I am a customer.



7) Who am I ?

I am a mother.



Like this, you can write down all the relavent answers.

Try this until you get the correct answer.



I think you can write down like 50 questions.

Answer 116

He must show his talent to impress upon others as per the situation and question, only then the fear of inferiority complex may be thrown into dustbin.



SP Gupta

Answer 117

You never asked because of which factor he/she has got inferiority complex. Whether it is because of his/her looks, because of his/her incapability to comprehend things in educational field or because of his/her social status in life. So you got to define because of which the comlex is.



Depending on these factors, we can suggest him/her the factors which can improve his/her confidence.



If its because of looks, we got to make him/her believe that beauty is skin deep only and that beauty lies in the eyes of beholder, as well...and real looks are there is soul and personality and that its more important how you carry yourself in society. And that these factors die only after your death unlike beauty.



If its because of educational incapacity, then we got to suggest him/her to explore the field he or she is interested in, as I believe that no one knows where the real talent of a person lies. So you got to make him explore.



If its because of social status, we got to impant him/her with the thought and the fact that no one in this planet earth was born with silver spoon. Some generation of the counterpart must have been just like any other normal and ordinary human being and only the destiny would have made some successive generation, a KING or a WEALTHY or a better stature human being. As we all know mankind evolved from where. So you are never too late and even you can be what others are and I strongly believe that given an equal opportunity anybody and everybody can become just anybody in this life. So, equal opportunity mattes a lot.

Answer 118

To over come your inferiority complex there are several ways...i think you just go through Secret by rhonda bryans...it will give you a pretty good idea to become a confident person...

Answer 119

dont worry about someothers,b'coz each and every body has an individual talent,there is no need of an inferiority complex,god has given everything to everyone,take advantage of that and d word inferiority complex vanishes from u and in dis world,best of luck guys.

Answer 120

it's a tough decision to make because your low self esteem will hinder you from doing so but try to read books about personality development and ask for help from true friends who are honest with you. or you can attend seminars that tackle topics like this. the only key to battle inferiority complex is to really know your own self and learn to love you for who you are and remember that One person loved you so much in that He gave His life for you so that you will live. the hard part though is believing and accepting that. it's not a myth it's for real and He is for real. 'seek and you will find' that's what His Book says. i believed and i did overcome my inferiority complex years ago! ---- (",)

Answer 121

Stop comparing.Its's gud if it is for ur inner transformation of ur negetives to positives but if it becomes a matter of personal possession and stuff like that ...plz stop it!! A gud way to get rid of this is proper communicaton without any barriers ,speak frankly with all ur heart whom u trust the most.Just see the world sourrounding u and u will feel ur problems melting like an ice. Realize that "NO ONE IS PERFECT "but is much sufficient in what u have & discover it!! help others and urself,share ur thoughts,understand each other and see the magic. " IF U DON'T LIKE SOMETHING CHANGE IT; IF U CAN'T CHANGE IT, CHANGE THE WAY U THINK ABOUT IT !!

Answer 122

inferiority does not come in a day.to beat it you must first be update about allthings general.have faith in your self and confidence ,do not shift away from your path of truth,make- love your 'mool mantra' then where is inferiority? you already are up there at peace with your self.remember God is there with all those who are right ,so with you too!

with creator on your side can you be inferior?

looks come second for they don't last what lasts is your behavior and impact of your smile.So all the best you are a truthful person and congratulations.

Answer 123

Always remember that u r the best creation of God ,with unique set of capabilities, intrests,traits and outlook towards life.While doing something do it with ur heart perspective with best of ur efforts and intentions, forgetting completely vat others might b thinking o u.Secondly, b transparent.When u act ur realself out ,you really dont bother bout how others r feeling or thinking bout u and that ensures :no subjective parameters for comparison-the rootcause of inferiority complex.

Answer 124

Nobody in this world is great and nobody is stupid. The way he/she looks at the things takes them to their own level. Just think you are unique creature in this world and never compare yourself with anybody. Take things as they are and do things up to ur level best. This attitude lifts u higher and removes the so called inferior complex....

Answer 125

The best way to overcome your Inferiority is acceptance of the fact and then work towards it to Improve upon. for instance, You know you are Fat and people laugh on you.... Don't feel bad..

Accept it ... Yes I am Fat But I have many things which others lack

Then, work out and do good diet and avoid junk food to loose extra fab in you...

thks..

Answer 126

Remember that everyone is not good at everything but good at something. Try to exploit your potentials or abilities you are good at and portray it. You will be liked by others and you get out of your inferiority complex.

Answer 127

By looking at what he has rather than what he hasn't. And look at the people who are in worst conditions (like people in slums , the labour working at site for whole day) than you then you feel good about yourself that atlesat the God has not put you in that bad condition and you will recover from your inferiority complex.

Answer 128

why feel inferior??? what makes other better to you than you are to them??? I'm sure your family loves you, that you have nice friends and a good heart. what more could you ask for, sure there a people with lots of money, lots of friends, and yet they are the most unhappy, lonely, and selfish. Why because life to them is a show, not something to be enjoyed. and yes their are people with nothing, yet find satisfaction in what they have. So who you are or what you have could always be better, but could also be so much worse.

Answer 129

mr rajesh



love at ur self

look at your weakness

think abour strengths

forget about the result..be confident and with positive mind u will get positive result...yes i can do should be the answer in ur mind. . go ahed .. result will be yours .



if u follow the above u feel that inferiority complex -- is inferior--but not complex...go ahead

Answer 130

It will be there till you either equal or overtake the person whom you feel superior to you. However, there are certain areas where you have to compromise for your own self because you cannot even equal your superior like height after certain age, body colour, physical handicap, family condition, etc. Whereas you can always sail past your opponent whom you envy about in areas like education, wealth, dress, contact circle, etc. Hence, only concentrate on matters where you can subdue your superior and forget about things which are not under your control. This is the only way out.

Answer 131

Hello every one .. its fact that many people suffer from this kind of complexity ... i can suggest these kind of people to feel more energetic themselves initially like who is better than u , yes offcoz , no one is better than themselves first of all , know this fact ... and juz start talking to others freely ...dont mind ur language and the feelings behind .. juz put on talks from ur heart .. dont think too much before u speak to ur frens , they are ur frens , so wats to hide and think before isn't it ..use the language u wish and words u wish ... dont hide anything inside ... slowly u will be habituated to eliminate this complexity .. jus try , u will find out the difference ... thanx for reading this answer ...

Answer 132

We have to trust our selves, donot compare ourselves with others who are in high position, we must see others who is lower than us.So we can understand that god has given us so much greater than any body else. Think ourselves as greater than any one then all these inferiority complex will be overcome.

Answer 133

psychological/psychiatric treatment will be of no help to over come inferiority complex . Just search for "experience it now self-realization (kundalini awakening) through sahaja yoga" and have your self realization sitting before your pc and forget about any sort of complex. Just give it a try. it's absolutely free.

Answer 134

1) try to read books on overcoming inferiority complex and building up self confidence

2) watch the people around you how they manage

3) try to learn to face enjoy good as well as bad

4) if nothing is helpful believe in god and strongly believe in god. definitely he/she will guide you and show a brighter confidential future

Answer 135

First thing to be noted is look up daily in the mirror and see ur self with a positive attitude that u can do anything.dress up well it doesn't mean to put make up but to wear the dress which gives u confidence. always have a thought in ur mind that u know much better than the other person and u have a talent in urself.

Answer 136

These lectures are all very good but how can one improve one's self confidence when every one tells u that you r gud for nothing and that the world would be a grt place with out you . One feels worthless,hopeless and most of all unlucky that despite having all the qualities and hard work one cannot achieve what one wants but idiots can get to those positions.

Answer 137

a person can be talented in one field n might not be in other ..first of all try to figure out that in which area u r superior n in which u r inferior..keep ur focus in ur talented field n side by side try to remove jinx from the things that r causing u to feel inferior .for example ..if u r overweight then do regular exercises .....If u r low in confidence then participate in friendly debates ,issues n present ur views on concerning topic

Answer 138

Building up self-confidence and realise self-esteem is the mantra to overcome inferiority. This would be possible by maintaining one's self-discipline, all round good knowledge and chanting prayers of God.

Answer 139

First question yourself, who is superior? why you feel yourself inferior? None is above your'self'. So, build your image for your'self', respect your inner feelings, ignore whoever pops-up. Someone tries to show superiority, they are rather inferior within and wants feign otherwise.

Nothing should make you let down, unhappy and inferior. Always be proud of your'self', respect others too, love all, expect nil..that's all mantra

Answer 140

first thing one should in mind - Believe in yourself and will to succeed.

Then a person should try to work on the inferiority complex and improve oneself with the drive to succeed.

Recognise about what the complex is, managing it and using it to your advantage .

Answer 141

i have something practical.

its your surroundings and people who remind you are inferior, and you keep thinking about it till the end of the day.



Its easy if you find someone who encourages you in life.. your family, good friends.. etc.



It turns tough and almost impossible if you rely on people suggestions and remarks to wipe out feeling of inferiority.



It's nothing but built by you only.



you r the best person to make you feel inferior and that's a fact.



think about u as a best person and challenge those who say that u r inferior..



after all i have to say is that ...its u make u feel good.. u make u feel bad..

Good Luck.

Answer 142

Dear no one borne with full of knowledge every body learn from each other so don't shie and share your problems to over come. We positive, think positive things will aoutomatically changed. Love your self then people will love you. If you do this inferiority complex will miles away from you. ramesh singh

Answer 143

Its actually a mind game.Its ur own mind that makes u feel confident person or percept u as shy one. So everbody has his/her different qualities.Everyone is unique in his own way.So luv yourself.Cherish what god has given u.Nobody is inferior to anybody.Somebody is master at one thing & other is good at something else.Its upto u if u feel inferior to other.Thus Believe in urself,Identify what u want & workhard to get it and get what u are lacking & U w'll be confident person.

Answer 144

What do you feel inferior about? Your looks? They can be improved, visit some good beautyparlour, try and groom yourself, read some good magazines, which tell you how to go about it.

Your knowledge? Read newspaper, keep yourself abrest of what is happening in and around you. Surf net, you get lot of knowledge,if you want. Meet people, listen to their views,think about it.

Make new friends,who like you for what you are.

Have self confidence,and not over confidence.

Answer 145

You need to do some some searching first...What is it that really makes you feel so....Try to overcome that...or try to build upon the qualities that you have...cultivate hobbies...try to do things that make you feel happy (watching TV doesn't count), get some exercise...once u start feeling happy , you'll feel better about yourself.....Its a long process and you will feel that some days its not working at all...u are back where you began (self-conscious and all) but don't let those feelings linger, divert your mind....type a mail...write a journal....slowly (it takes really long for some people) and eventually you will definitely feel better about yourself...

Answer 146

when ever you think about your failures u will be under inferiority. so do not think about the past and only think about what to do now and believe in your elders advice. never thought about the negatvie side of the step . think positive and whenever u feel wrong remember ur mother or father or ur god or ur loveone and and take a long breath and start ur work with out hesitate.i personally used this technique in my life also.

Answer 147

if u r having an inferiority complex then just try to count ur plus pts over the other and u'll certainly feel better

Answer 148

Look within,do not look for models outside or compare with others out there; we can never be others and there is no need to become others; we can only be our self and that is within us; experience it. We have to go beyond our thoughts, feelings and 'values' to do that.Turn an "eye" to your experience as you go along the experiences of the world around you where at some point it hits you and start moving around what means most to you and that is your true you and only that can give you total confidence in yourself,grow to greater peace and prosperity with it!

Answer 149

The inflated ego is mask for inferiority complex.one has to shed his/her ego to overcome inferiority complex.

Answer 150

1. Help the less fortunate people, that will make one feel more capable and confident. He/she will get appreciation from the society that will make him/her feel good about self.

2. Don't creep regarding your problems/failures among your friends.

3. Listen to your friends and try to solve their problems, mentor them when they are in trouble, that will make you feel more confident.

4. Be more optimistic, don't give up when you fail. Persistence helps solving the problems and once you succeed after many hurdles, you will feel even far more confident.

5. Don't compare your self with others. Everyone is unique. Don't try to be someone else.

6. Cultivate some hobbies so that you can divert your mind while you are in bad mood.

Answer 151

Hey... This is a question u need to ask urself.. I m sure u ll find ur own answers for this... Asking people about this is not gonna help... The best solution is to ask urself the question Y??? A hundered times wen u feel inferior... U ll find an answer!!!

Answer 152

The best way to overcome his /her inferiority complex is to enhance other merits of him/herself. Like, if u r thin(not body builder),then OK.,no tension,try to make yourself athletic so that body builder gets frustrated . If blackish ,then be a meritorious one......its not easy task ,but nothing is impossible ,bcoz the word "IMPOSSIBLE" self says that---"I M POSSIBLE"

Answer 153

through group discussion we can overcome inferiority complex...we have to give a demo on stages to overcome this problem.

Answer 154

One can overcome his/her inferiority complex by having a positive outlook towards life and by accepting one's shortcomings and more importantly by accepting oneself as is.

Answer 155

by stopping thinking in competitive terms alone one can come out of inferiority....

when one is sorrounded by superiors a man starts feeling inferior..he is required to rebuild his mental status first ,for that he needs a conductive atmosphere and sorroundings,one has to build these first,,it will be perfect for such a man to get involved with less prieveledged like leporacy patients homes/ hospitals where he can be of some help to others,,social and voluntary organisations,,religieous gatherings where social work isbeing undertaken for upliftment of down troddens,,let him build a ffeling of contributing monetarily or physically,,this will make him come out of his inferiority complex

Answer 156

no one can make u fell inferior without ur concent





the supereme secret of success in life

is the attitude we take towards ourselves

as the belief about our capabalities

strongly governs the level of our performance.........



so v should consider ourselves unique and special..........

hope this will help u overcome ur inferiority complex

Answer 157

one can overcome his inferiority complex by firstly, thinking positive and mastering the art of blanking people out when you feel that they are not helping in any way to make you feel better, by that i mean, hear them but do not listen and then discard whatever information you receive through that source. and if you feel bad for any reason then start buying yourself small knick knacks as gifts to make you feel better and to uplift your spirit.

Answer 158

firstly i would say take every day a new day.and please look into the mirror and realise the hidden treasure within you.your outer personality restraining you.but u forget that your personality consists of several layers but u r not aware that beneath all these layers,there lies your golden real self and u go on leading ur life solely on the basis of outer layers.do not take burden what other think.i personally feel we can acheive everything without others help.so how can others come into ur life.feel little but positive proud of what u are and to more of this ,grab energy and warmth from ur parents.

Make a rule u would never think before on such trivial,petty,normal,unneccesary which tease,stop you to come into a beautiful and challenging life.

Answer 159

Complex comes very easily if u have 0 confidence in yourself

just try to believe in yourself and develop freindly relation with people around and talk to them..

you will definately find some change in youself

Answer 160

Think yourself better than the person infront. Thinking that you are a wonderful creation of God, go ahead things will turn up and inferiority will automatically be removed.

Answer 161

Only by positive thinking and an auto suggestion as I am

inferior to none.

Answer 162

inferiority complex comes in play, when an individual thinks that he lacks something in compariosn of someone else, it might be his physique, the way he /she carries himself/herself, possession of any good/article, inability to do something or it can be anything, which can depress someone....the best way forward is to identify the best traits in you and then realizing that we are worth more then some mere depressing thoughts....which can bog you down ....one should have a spirit of fighting till the last end....that satifcation can bring anyone out of any complex....

Answer 163

everybody in one's life would have faced the problem of inferiority complex at one point of time, irrespective of his background .Nobody in this world is perfect so one has to conciously work on his weaker points on a regular basis and effort has to be put in so as to strengten his confidence it cannot just happen over night .

depending of the kind of inferiority complex one has to work on them .

Answer 164

Hey,it's just simple.



Believing in one-self and having faith in God that whatever He has planned in your life is for your good.So nothing can go wrong.It's just the way you deal with a situation.



It's the Attitude that you hold that leads you to a higher Altitude and not the other way round.



So just hold the Positive Attitude & have Faith and everything will be just great.Inferiority Complex is just a meager thing,this way you'll be able to handle and challenge each problem in your life,rather problem challenging you.



PRAISE GOD!

Answer 165

God is within oneself and nothing to worry on fear. Everything good he does is on god's nod and it is he doing the thing.



No fear of inferiority to others. There are god form which are not so good but still He has power and people worship. No need to worry of the shape, beauty or anything else. Go ahead do work , it is god doing and you are not doing the concept will work to eradicate the fear and succeed in life

Answer 166

DO NOT COMPARE WITH ANY BODY FOR ANY THING. THIS IS THE ONLY WAY TO OVERCOME INFERIORITY COMPLEX. ALL OTHER SUGGESTIONS WILL COME UNDER THIS CRITERIA.

Answer 167

The best way to eliminate inferiority complex is to do the things repeatedly which you fear most....



For eg: if you have stage fear try to participate in as many as stage competitions.



The more you do those it will become a habit for you.... :)

All the best....

Answer 168

when we are speak to others, they are high grade in society inferiority complex will come. Normally upto Degree i am facing this type of problem



we can avoid this type of problem when we will speak freely to others & we have to improve our body language also people has come outside the town, or village

Answer 169

well i am putting it on personal note. Remember their is NO ONE EARTH LIKE U. Your DNA is different from others, so why are u inferior, U are Unique.

And remember their is just one man like u, and that is U yourself. So dont consider yourself inferior u are gifted and unique. Be happy, cheers!!!

Answer 170

first, by asking this question you have agreed t hat it is a problem and you are eager to overcome it. kudos. Not everyone is born equal. Someone excel in something while other in other things. That doesn't mean you are less inferior to him. May be he is not expert in things in which you are.So, try to accept this.He has became brilliant in that things because he might have given more attention to that thing than you. But, so are you in your field. Love yourself, believe in yourself.,respect yourself.God loves those who love themselves. Be positive. learn things in which you are weak & which is relevent to you. Pay attention to your appearance, be smart, socialise, smile & remain happy.Life is beautiful. enjoy.

Answer 171

You know, postponing things is a bad habit. But, if you can postpone bad things, it can revert you with good solution.



In other words, keep on postponing about thinking of inferiority complex and concentrate on your immediate task or need.

Answer 172

yoga and meditation is the best way by one can overcome his inferiority complex.

Answer 173

well when do we feel. inferiorit y complex ..? the answer is simple .. when we have comparisions ..made with others..



so stop doing it.. learn to be competitve and never compare.. comparisions are the main reasons for inferiority complex..try to develop the feeling of self-Esteem.. because people with self-Esteem never feel any such inferiority or superiority complxes..

Answer 174

realise that everyone is special in his/her different way, there is no one in the world exactly like you so u r special.... there is no one who speaks just like you, thinks like u and so on... so u r special in every unique way, further u can luk around people who are less priviliged than u, for example u hv time n means to share ur problem on the net n at the same time there r people who didnt get enough to eat, so feel satisfied n at par with other people. I hope this will help overcome ur blues.

Answer 175

one can overcome his inferiority complex by way of exercising behavioural therapy .

Answer 176

What is this inferiority, just a state of mind and anyone is inferior because he/she compares himself/herself with one is having expertise in that field though he or she may be good in other field.

Think over your positive aspects only. No need to worry about where you are little bit less efficient as compare to others.

"Aasmaan aur bhi hain parwaz karke dekh,

Anjam se kyon darta hai Aaghaz karke dekh"

Answer 177

Look within yourself and concentrate on your strong points and good qualities to make best of them, rather than looking out at others and feeling inferior.

Answer 178

Choose 2-3 pepole who are of lower IQ then you & stay with them you will overcome the inferioity complex.

Answer 179

why inferiority complex ? because God made all of us with same potential but it up to you how you use it. you are much better than others. the only thing which you have to do is make faith on yourself. improve your bad habits. improve your own personality in yourown eyes. if you improve that, you are winner. and not think of others.because only god can give you yash not that people. so concentrate on your karma only. this is my suggestion . neeru atreja karnal.

Answer 180

I got the answer from Bhagwan Sri Sathya Sai Baba

Baba says 'Iam God You are also God The difference is that

I know that Iam God but you are ignorant about it' Close

your eyes and rflect on this statement of Baba and then you

will have no more problems in your life.God is love & you are also part and parcel of that big LOVE Throw away all your

complexes and live in love

Answer 181

Well everyone should think you have to choose according to your situation.......so you try to selecet the best in that situation as par your situation which includes all your family, your job, your physical sturctue and all other things.......so you are unique.............never compare yourself with other and if someone is comparing you stay away from such persons..........or tell them you are going to be noumbe rone fine than go and talk with other noumber one let us second ranker compete with second rankers..........we are at different level...........so never feel inferior but try to find someone of your level and spend time together to common interest person...........

Answer 182

one feels inferior because he thinks he 's superior. so by proper understanding of oneself and treating all equally and not cheating his concious one can overcome his inferiority complex.

Answer 183

Hi! Do not worry yourself.They may be good at some thing specific but basically you are as good as they are.You may follow the following points:

1)Build self esteem

2)Be a team member and work with others

3)Bea balanced self analyst and self conscious

4)Never compare yourself with others

5)Do not neglect your studies and career

6)See positive points in you only and utilise them at most

7)Read life histories of great people

8)If find difficult consult Psychiatrist

Answer 184

A person with superiority compley only will have inferiority complex. He should treat others and themself equally.

Answer 185

according 2 my view its de question of self respect nd self esteem...if u feel ur self down only den de outsider wil encourage u more 2 feel lyk dis nd if u think better for u only den de other wil respect u..bcoz de all thinking will clearly shown on ur face expression and ur behaviour...never think urself down, always think dat the qualities,personality given 2 u by god is much enough for u...u r the best of all..u can do each nd everything in much better way den others...dont...dont...feel inferiority complex in front of others...

Answer 186

AIM HIGH HIGH HIGH HIGH IN YOUR MOSTLY INTERESTED AREA AND BE SUPERIOR IN YOUR MIND DONT ASK ABOUT YOU TO OTHERS. AIM STRONGLY TO DEFEAT THE PERSONS WHO ARE ALL CRITIZIZED YOU...... DEVELOP YOUR POSITION IN RIGHT WAY OF WORKING.... because i overcome from my inferiority complex through this way only. I am the first in my class.... all the best

Answer 187

Inferiority complex is like a cup of tea that normal people used to drink everyday with same newspaper. first you need to change yourself, your attitude, the way of thinking and way of living, don't under estimate yourself whenever you got a negative or positive feedback with your near ones, always accept, realise and apply on yourself with strong commitment and determinant.

Aaj badalo ne saazish kuch aisi ki, ghar that kaccha wohi bizliyan girane ki, agar use bhi zidd hai wohi bizliyan girane ki to hame bhi zidd hai wohi apna aashiyan banane ki.

Answer 188

as for me complexes are always dangerous. speaking about inferiority complex, i would say that one must know first that who is he or she? secondly , he or she must alwaaays choose to live what he or she is and ultimately, he or she must make herself and himself. in short, know oneself, choose oneself and make oneself. if these are done prpperly no one has the time or situation to feel that he or she is inferior. In all sense what is the common and inevitable truth is that each one is unique

Answer 189

It is the pattern of thoughts, which comes in particular situation to haunt. What we thought, expressed through words and followed by action. Cause of any problem lies in the thought process. How to check thoughts - very difficult. Best way to break that pattern is reciting of God's Name. Whoever is your idol, just recite the Name mentally. Slowly, slowly start with 5 mins. and gradually with the passage of time increase the duration. Negative thoughts don't allow the positive energy to flow through us. When we recite, mind gets busy in that and stop sending thoughts to us. Believe me, I am saying from my experience. Now I am an officer in Govt. Sector. i can be contacted at [e-mail]

Answer 190

i have got so many answers for ur Q.

1) By keeping urself busy.

2) By doing better than other.

3) By interacting with other.

4) By getting drunked wht u can not do in noramal condition.

Answer 191

you can increase ur inferiority complex by keeping d friends who have low ability than u or thinking about ppl who r in lower position or have less knowledge than u.

Answer 192

by knowing his/her hidden qualities which are more important then having the inferiority complex from others

Answer 193

Every Day in the morning after getting ready to go for work or school or whatever, just stand in front of the mirror and repeat 5 times loudly looking straight into your eyes in the mirror " I AM THE BEST & I WILL EXCELL IN MY TASK TODAY" religiously for 1 month and see the difference! Also try and read the book " Dont say yes, when you want to say know"

Answer 194

STEPS FOR OVERCOMING INFERIORITY COMPLEX IS: 1) THINKING POSITIVE

2) KEEPING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE IRRESPECTIVE OF THE SITUATION. WHATEEVER THE SITUATION IS ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE.

3) WILL POWER & LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST INFACT VERY VERY IMPORTANT THING IS,

4) TRUST IN GOD.

Answer 195

It is very easy if one knows his/her own qualities and also want to learn every new thing from any one else.



Hiding yourself is the root cause of inferiority.

Answer 196

don,t think so you are inferior,think you are a gift of GOD Which join the company on earth to enjoy the nature.watch those who will be at lower side from you.join the society of these peopel i confidantly say you will never thik so.



with good wishes and confident which i wish for you



G.R.Thakur

Answer 197

Nobody is inferior to anybody-it requires DEVELOPMENT OF SELF ESTEEM and SELF INTROSPECTION-Adapt yourself to changing Life- patterns, trends , and believe in YOURSELF--concentrate on your STRENGTHS and SOCIALISE- if you feel go to a Mentor with whom you feel comfortable EXPRESS and EJECT inferiority complex from your system.

Answer 198

well,cause of this inferiority complex is YOU.I think if u learn to bend with the situation & make ur charcter flexible u can win.

Answer 199

God created everyone equal so no one is inferior to none.Communicating with courage and confidence is the first step, it is simply that we refuse to change which makes us more complex.We should know that you yourself is the first person to step boldly and let the world know the hidden talents in you. You never know that your contribution could change the world itself.

Answer 200

inferiority complex is a one type of fear in our mind or heart.

the most important reason for it is lack of knowledge, if u have not work hard in your life, lack of communication with other peoples due to live alone in family or society, you will not have a confidance on your self, and it is only due to lack of knowledge and you were not work hard for it.

what is best of luck? it is only your knowledge and hard work. so get knowledge and go away from this silly word infir.....

Answer 201

Simple by having superiority complex.

Answer 202

One should join a good Gymnasium and do workout for at least 2 Hours on daily basis.After the workout ,the person feels so good about himself that he will never compare himself with others.

Answer 203

Never Fear Anything and always believe god has created with something special in each of us.



Also "Never Let yourself down at any time" keep repeating this.



When u want to improve,the first step that u have to take should come from you



Hope this helps

Answer 204

Inficomplx is governed more by one's subconscious mind. It governs whole gamut of our behaviour,actions and reactions to situations.

it is in a way stupid and believes what we say to it by auto suggestions. Keep giving auto suggestions to yr mind by loud thinking and see how soon the complex goes away.

Behave with arrogance and soon u will lose yr infi-comlx.

take some cues and clues from stupid politicians in behaving with arrogance.

Answer 205

-- One need to start indulging in reading motivational n Inspirational books, also personality development books that would help in increasing the self-confidence.

-- Also, they say a character of a person is known from the friends he/she has. So try n remain around friends who help to increase your self-image or encourage & support you to do good things.

-- By Associating and talking to more people....people like whom he/she wants to become or whom one feels comfortable talking to.

-- Last option would be to go to a counsellor, who would suggest the same above points :)

Answer 206

Sit half anhour alone for few days.

Search yourself.Where do you stand

What is, which you do not have

List your 5 such points.

Compare it with your friends, who have these good points

Think ,how do they behave

Start copying them for these 5 points.

See improvement you feel everyday

Make more and more efforts and try to reach level of your friends.

Your problem will be over one day.

Answer 207

1. Start counting all your plus point.

2. Start counting all good things you have done before.

3. Believe in yourself.

4. find the at least one thing that you did that no body else can do.

5. Talk to your best (True) friend

6. last but not the least the best thing is Talk to your parents.



Piyoosh

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Answer 208

Inferiority occurs basically coz we dont hav or lack of confidence in ourself, Basicallyy tis kinda person should alwiz think positvely, even they cant they should try to to have positive thoughts in mind, when they feel they are down, think of their strengths, think wat they are good at, wat was their latest achievement.Basically dressing do plays a part in overcoming inferiority, so dress confidently, put on something new, make sure it look nice on you,your dresiing need not to be attractive, looking pleasant & sweeet make you feel better.

Answer 209

Confidence comes naturally with sucess but sucess comes to those who are confident.



Everyone's watch shows different time and everyone believes that their time is correct-so believe in yourself.



Do meditation for 20 mins at night before sleeping.



Rivers can dry, mountains can fly, everything is possible, if one can try.



Thanks

Answer 210

This is due their own experience that it is inferiority experience of all human beings different ways

my example : our choice is get better things but we get choice of different things thats we dont want to like

Answer 211

we should know one thing we superior to many inferior to few but we can also do some thing. instill ur heart with strength of lion shake of delusion u r sheep we are all immortal children of the immortal how can we b nothing .mans nature is to conquer against nature not to b with nature .strong will will take us to greatest heights.

Answer 212

TO overcome this,one should study what is lacking and what one feels to need.There are certain tools like perception,cultivation and knowledge applying them in routing life.If you feel insufficiency shift to alternate or drop the wanting.Extreme courtesy make you popular and daring so use it where ever you like.

Answer 213

There is no way but to work harder and harder. First find out where you falter and try your level best to improve in that particular field. Hard work always pays. If you don't find immediate result, don't lose heart. Keep on trying better and better. One day you will be an icon to others.

Good luck!

Answer 214

Start thinking and feeling that you are as equally important as the other person whomsoever you come across.



Start reading some good books on "positive thinking"- check some books on Swami Vivekananda.



Start doing simple tasks confidently - doing things by your own will .



Hope it will change your thinking and feeling .....

Answer 215

Its a static state of da mind which comes when a person falls with benchmarks in front of his eyes , make the benchmarks like Himalaya and dont measure others with tha because it is urs.

Answer 216

do the art of living course..it has shown wonderful results .it's compulsory for all miss india trainees ,cricketers etc..2 million people across the world hv found d diff including senate members of around 10 countries..check out google group of ur city's aol group to get furthur details..

Answer 217

It all depends what type of Inferiority complex do you have. some are curable and some leads to other type of complexes.



Regards,

Ashish

Answer 218

well ... low self esteem is a vicious thing ... cant ven get ur guts to speak to a person ... stops u from meeting people .. taking chances ...



had this problem sumtime back... but the only way i found to fight ur fear is to face it ...



for instance. .. if it is all about chatting up gals ... go and speak to one ... be honest sincere and freindly ...



if it is about making freinds ... try going online for a tester ... make ur style ... find ur true self and then go out ... parties .. meet people ... hav fun



but then again ... as u find ... sum ppl are destined to hav self esteem at nil for long times no mater wht they do ...



try and focus away from ur wekaness if u feel to scared to face it ... if u aint a people person ... try and bring out ur other talents .... ppl dun just notice good lookers ... they also do notice talent and skill ...



bring it on ... bring it on hard

Answer 219

first you think that all others are fools except you. it will definitely overcome the inferiority.

Answer 220

please look below to u and think how r u luckey in position. think thrise before doing thinks. Every one is superior to others in one or other means. Make self confidence our selves. Do thinks ,make mistakes and again do and hard work lead to over come inferiority. Respect and belive yourself.

Answer 221

I think by developing the habit of self reliance and building confidence through keeping abreast with the world issues.

Answer 222

just do not think take three deep breath and do it do not think about others just learn to take the initiative others lack in this so ,one fine day u will realize u r on top of everybody those who were going shoulder to shoulder with you

all the best

and do not think be as wild as u can then only crativity will come

Answer 223

well, according to me it depends on regarding waht one is feeling inferior about....depndn on dat u plan 2 overcome it.

Answer 224

depends on what the inferior feeling is about:do a little introspection and find that out first

Answer 225

winning is not everything but the effort to win is . So try to give your hundered percent in whatever you do . And if you donot know certain things don't hesitate and ask immediately as no body is perfact.Somethings we learn only by doing.Live in present and be happy.

Answer 226

The best way is Interact more with people, dont think what people are thinking. too much thinking about anything is bad, so stop thinking about you and the complexity much, live carelessly

Answer 227

INFERIORITY COMPLEX CAN BE OVERCOME BY ANYONE, IF HE SHARES HIS FEELINGS WITH SOMEONE WHOM HE TRUST THE MOST, FOR THAT HE SHOULD HAVE CONFIDENCE ON HIMSELF FIRST, TRY TO RESPECT HIMSELF AND RESPECT OTHERS, LISTEN TO OTHERS, GIVE ROOM FOR OTHERS TO ADVISE HIM. IT IS MAINLY THAT HE SHOULD BE OPEN MINDED TO ALL CRITICISMS AND ADVISES.

Answer 228

yes by gaining self confidence. and first step to get this confidence is to think all other surrounding yu know less then u. u r the smartest one. well mannered and respective to others. stand in front of a mirror and appreciate yur everything

Answer 229

by accepting yourself as an unique individual who has every reason and right to live on this planet as others have. by not comparing yourself to anyone else since no one on earth has ever lived the life you have lived with its unique experiences. you are what you think you are at any given moment. so if you think you are a nice person then you are .

Answer 230

The trick is simple...just believe in yourself & very importantly understand that no one knows your true power than yourself.



When you visit someone, believe that you know more than the opposite person & you will soon realise that you are getting better with time & emerge as winner.

Answer 231

Try to find out your hidden good qulities in you and grade it as your plus points. try to display those points in a respectable manner that others will appreciate your plus points overlooking your inferior qulities. ie plus points will surpass minus points and then you will gain confidence and consider yourself better than others and can become a winner.

Answer 232

First of all, warm hugs :) Second... You could google "how to raise self-esteem", there're thousands of websites there that mention the solution to this problem. Please do not misunderstand me and feel I'm not genuinely trying to help. I just feel that there're a lot more and they may offer better solutions than I do. Wish you happiness in the future.

Answer 233

If an Individual is comparing himself/herself with any other one then its nothing like inferiority of superiority, its like insulting himself/herself.

Answer 234

Hello Rajesh,

Who think that he is superior?

Whether inferior or superior, is not normal.

Why should one loose his self respect, either directly or indirectly.

Let him observe his life as he move with others,

and correct.

Answer 235

The only way to get out of this, is to face the criticism and hard work to overcome it.

Answer 236

you cannot get rid of something which is not real , only you haveto see this , nothing else!......... so when the feeling of inferiority comes stay with the feeling ..... dont push it away, and soon you see it has left ..when we try to,get rid of something it jumps on us ..........inferiority and superiority are the sides of same mind .........

Answer 237

By ignoring and expecting less from what he has..!! If one look around he can find lot many who doesnot have anything but they live satisfied social life.



Taking care of himself is first motto than comparing.

Answer 238

you don't hesitates or shy from others ,its make you alone and make inferiority complex.mingle with your friends and share your good or bad with your true friend.you dress neatly and you doesn't feel yourself low from others.everyone high in the world ,no one low for others.so,you think high in the world in specific situation not all situation.

Answer 239

Try to find your bad and good qualities honestly. Enhance your good qualities and rectify your bad qualities. Be honest and sincere to everything you do and do not make same mistake twice. Listen to everybody's views attentively and then talk. And let other people think about yourself.

Answer 240

By knowing that he alone exists and the world is projection of his mind as per Yogavashistha.One shouldnot be a football of other poeple's opinium.Ashok

Answer 241

Understand that everyone born with all human qualities. under various circumstances thought pattern changes, due to that fact ,thinking pattern changes,in fact qualities are there.

Try to imbibe the reality. Search for our inner quality thru meditation.



osho sathish

Answer 242

One suffers from Inferiority complex when one compares himself to others or allows himself to be compared with others.......if one need s to recovers one needs to like himself (i.e. accept who one is and approve of it)....

Answer 243

He should think about the good things that have happened to him.Think yourself as an entity and try to separate yourself from your failures or success.Your existence is worth much more than your accomplishments.

Answer 244

By knowing his own capabilities to utmost point and utilising them in a progressive way with a positive attitude

Answer 245

Mingle with ur friends.Share everything with ur friends.i feel those who are alone and never mingle will feel inferior.i feel if u keep ur body fit and dresses neet u will get self-confidence and automatically if u hav self-confidence in u, u won't feel inferior.

Answer 246

Believe in yourself.you were not born with this habit. you acquired it . So you can change it.Have faith in your abilities.With out a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.but with sound self confidence you can succeed and leads to self realization

Answer 247

first... with calm and cool brains find out the root of the cause..

the complex... then make your mind hard enough to face the cause and reason of the cause.

dont move away from the cause...... face it.... let it all happen what you are afraid of. try to think exterme

Answer 248

Self confidence

Answer 249

ask him/ her life history. then collect incidents which give him inferiority complex...then solve the problem by alternative positive exampales.............

Answer 250

This is a psychological condition. U will find remedy in " Flower remedies" which is a parallel branch of Homeopathy.

regards

Ajay

Answer 251

Trust yourself. And do not depend on others to pay compliments for you instead compliment yourself for all small achievements you do. Set small reliable targets and achieve them which would motivate you.

Be around positive people.

Be Cheerful.

Answer 252

Hey there Is a very simple ans .............. Just Think Positive and be Confident ... but my words may easy to say .. but Action is Difficult .... u need to mingle with every one .. and major thing is .. u want to be confident

Answer 253

always make ur weekness your strenght.just remember no one is born perfect.actually we are so much surrounded by that false complexs which no one even notices,we ourself make it big.make yourself comfortable in whatever you are.come on be a man & face everything gracefully.

Answer 254

By developing self confidance and with the determination that yes I am the best,I can certainly do this which others can't do.

Answer 255

Believe in yourself. Try to Speak & Accept the truth.

Answer 256

well dts nt hard dear.. u knw wt.. one who love himself get no rivals so it gud if u find out gud widin urself, nd if sumthing making u feel inferior then let me tell u one thing dt no body cares for you more than you do yourself. so its worthless to care for other ppl who dont bother for u. perhaps u dont understnd the meaning persanality..."its something dt how well you carry urself".. its nt hw gud ur luking but hw well u manage wid ur resources.... so try to boost ur self esteem by complimenting urself....

regards...

rajeev

Answer 257

STEP 1: Always keep a smile, dawn to dusk.

Practise this for a week, then I will let you know STEP 2.

Answer 258

by start interacting with others , sharing yours ideas, views. stop listening the others when they make u feel inferior, they r nt ur gud frends.

Answer 259

Dont ever compare yourself with others.Find out the qualities that make you feel low,observe from others how they over come it.Then improve yourself that way.Sportsman spirit and self-improvement urge is required.At times,when you feel really low,think of positive qualities on others appreciated of.Always keep in mind,no one is perfect

Answer 260

all the people in the world are thinking about changing this world but they dnt think of changing themselves... a person who compares him wth others is insulting himself.... so buildup ur confidence... gud or bad feel free to speak with others, talk freely wth ur family and friends... their cooperation will be helpful in building ur confidence...

Answer 261

first of all sit in a quit place . think and note down who is the person behind this on group of people . think what they have which u don't have ?then see down people who r u think lower to your catagury .compair with them . u will get to know.

Answer 262

increase self confidence

think positive

don't compare yourself with other people in good looking good wearing

do not try to copy other

always point out your +points

always remain happy

feel pleasure in all conditions

Answer 263

To belive in your self, To be positive and confident, Dont hesitate to express your views , Dont shun from mingle with other.

Answer 264

just by knowing yourself.you are the one who is above this body and mind.you a soul ,a part of supersoul ,the god ,who has the power to control body and mind .and this holds true for everyone.

Answer 265

One of the several ways is to explore himself. What he is good at? Or he has to start new activity.

Like learning music, dance.

Maintaining good phisique by going to GYM.

Answer 266

It is ourself how can make us feel inferior, so better not think for that word & have faith in yourself.

Answer 267

Dear all,



This is aditya

In my point of view hum logo ko kabhi bhi apni actual personality ko chupana nahi chaiye and har us lamhe ko jina chaiye chahe wo acha ho ya bura ho kyonki wo lamha apki zingagi me laut ke nahi aayega after all,



kya pata kal ho na ho!

Answer 268

BELIEVE IN URSELF.... try to find out what u are good at, and work on it (like writing, or any other job) and u ll never feel inferior then.......

P.S. motivational books dont really help. so dont waste your time on them......

Answer 269

Think that " whatever i do is correct to my point of view " .

Also think the opposite person does not know anything.

And when we walk or do anything think that we are the ruler.

Answer 270

talk more, participate in every / all dialoges, never mind speek little loudly, make you presence being felt by others.

call your friends if u donot meet them generally.

never question yourself whether whatever you are going to do is good correct or not. just do it.

Answer 271

Have faith in yourself & feel proud of you.

This will instil self-confidence.

Do whatever you are convinced is right , without giving in to external pressure or reacting to public opinion.

Answer 272

Start feeling and make urself ur favourite n d world will move around u!

Answer 273

hai,

I orer to come out off ur in feriority complex should have......

1)confideence

2)faith

3)knowledge



in u if u dont trust yourself now one can trust u....

Answer 274

working with the motivational group and get positiveness in life to overcome the fear.First trust (ASTHA)in those you like,than devotion(SAMARPAN) and finally you could get and reach what you want.This is called duty to self.

Answer 275

be try to think of positive around you. get supplementary strength by doing long breath in and out exercises with decent Yoga excercise.

Answer 276

Watch "Jab we met" and learn simple rules of self-confidence from kareena. You will not learn these even in harvard business school.

Answer 277

GOD IS WITH ME .GOD IS WITHIN ME.JUST THINK .THE UNIVERSAL POWER(GOD)WHO HAS CREATED EVERYTHING THIS WHOLE WORLD THIS UNIVERSE AND MUCH MUCH MORE THIS GREAT AND POWERFUL SHAKTI RESIDES WITHIN ME!!!!!! I ONE WILL AUTOMATICALLY START FEELING PROUD OF ONE SELF.NO ! I AM NOT INFERIOR AS THE SUPREME POWER IS WITH ME . I AM SON OF A LION HOW CAN I CONSIDER MY SELF INFERIOR.

Answer 278

try to read about that in the holy quran and Islamic books and you will find you most of the Muslims overcame this problem

Answer 279

Don't think of others for some time. Make free and spend quality time with yourself

Answer 280

By following someone who he thinks resembels him or jus followin his idol.

I know following someone or imitating someon is kindaa wrong idea as the person may loose his identity..but belive me it helps!

Answer 281

by increase superiority complex

Answer 282

by having self confidence in himself/herself

it is the best way but for that as we have to do many efforts coz its not so easy task

Answer 283

The person who has inferiority complex, must remove his/her shyness...and then he/she fix himself/herself on the peak of among others.................finally he/she is superior to others..........

Answer 284

u can overcome by understanding wat others need the best from u and u should always think in a way that u r a genious everything others can do y can't u?isn't it. hope it will be works for you if so I am very glad to u.ok bye bye...........

Answer 285

Simply by being over-confident. Love yourself!

Answer 286

just say to yourself everytime you feel low- "so what that people are so smart and good than me!. I too am important to this world.Afterall alexander could never have been the great conqurer alone , without his soldiers ,could he?"

Answer 287

Hi I totally agree with ananth's answer.By meeting more people one can know his/her good qualities which indeed boosts his confidence.

Answer 288

I appreciate Pooja's Answer. Excellent.

Answer 289

FIRSTLY,YOU ARE A UNIQUE CREATION IN YOURSELY,CREATED BY THE HIGHEST POWER OF THE UNIVERSE.YOU HAVE TO CHANGE YOUR THINKING,A BIT.

DON'T BE TOO HARD ON YOU,AS EACH & EVERY ONE OF US HAS SOMETHING SPECIAL,IN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER.

LIKE WHATEVER YOU DO.

LOVE & ACCEPT YOURSELF.

DO MEADITATION.

LISTEN SOFT MUSIC.

Answer 290

By seeing the people who are less than in almost all aspects...it will works out



Ask this question to your heart and brain "what will happen, will i die" absolutely NOOOOOOOOOOOO

Answer 291

Look deep into your self. Go through deep study of your self and all you will get is your answer

Answer 292

Just by having One or two very good friends. Who can actually boost u up.

Answer 293

just remember the fact that you are not this body but you are the Spirit soul.You are part and parcel of God.your real nature is like that of our Eternal Loving Father -God.We are sat-chit-anand meaning we are eternal ,full of knowledge and full of bliss..

Answer 294

This is very simple.

Try to make everyone as a friend. Feel free to talk. keep smiling.

Answer 295

Thinking that nobody is perfect every body has weakness. weakness which is known and not known to others. we should not go by the appearance.

Answer 296

As per me if one has the best of education in his/her age surrounding..one feels superior to all...

Answer 297

comparison to others should be quit.optimism and self realization really help to know ones own options,intrests and understanding with others . also one should be realistic and set short term,reachable goals.

Answer 298

hey just trust in god and do exercise daily by which you will increase ur mantal stability, then understand ur strengths then work towards correcting ur weakness and ur self.

carry on with these as the initial step, god will show you the way next.

Answer 299

simple, by understanding that u feel inferior.. that moment is enuf transform it

Answer 300

only when we havw knelt before god can we stand before man. cast all your burden upon him,he does not care about your ability or unability but just your availibility. he loves youanyhow. ifyou r important for him so no matter what human think about you.

Answer 301

Every person is special in his/her own way.Ofcourse,each will have his/her own flaws.....just don't mind tat...concentrate on your better parts...this will make u feel superior n confident.

Answer 302

Read the book... "the monk who sold his ferrari"

its really gr8 book...

tats a little help i can do....

the book has lots to say

Answer 303

Think positive; avoid depressants and keep self confidence and always think you are good as you are.

Answer 304

By self confidence and self assessment

Answer 305

every morning look at yourself in the mirror and say out loud " i am good! i can do it!! its me who is most important!! Scaw the world!! shout it out 3-5 times and your day is ready for you.

Answer 306

Just b +ve. Work hard. Buildup your confidence.

Answer 307

By correctly evaluating time,situation and place.

Answer 308

HI RAJESH IAM A DOCTOR AS WELL AS PSHYCHOLOGIST SO DO NOT WORRY.WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU ARE INFERIOR TO OTHERS

Answer 309

Empower educational qualification .Improve the friends circle .improve the working skills .improve the behaviour pattern. improve the dress code. Improve communication skills.

Answer 310

approach the person/problem directly.do not hesitate to take initatives.do not worry about the outcome

Answer 311

by not giving a damn about what the world thinks about you... believe in the fact that you are the best, not less than any1 in any way...

Answer 312

be self confidence on urself.just go on talking & doing things in effective manner.if anybody lough on u then avoid it.

Answer 313

Try to be yourself first.. Dont try to read others mind(you might be wrong), which leads to what you asked

Answer 314

Patience, listen or communicate with others, stop thinking or praising about us.

Answer 315

by mingling with peoples in society.the way people react we have to see in society. The way people talk in society

Answer 316

Think that you are superior than everyone in one way or other and that's true,everyone is unique and so everyone is superior in their own way.

Answer 317

having confidence for every work which is cundected by me.i will try to take easily my disions.

Answer 318

He has to make himself mentally strong

Answer 319

Believe in yourself "I am the Best" and see the change.

Answer 320

Ghanti is right........

He/She should try to overcome his weakness.....and should be creative.....with positive thinking. there should not be comaparision. respect ownself, and have confidence in all work he/she do's.....that's all.....

Answer 321

be positive look for the people below your standard

Answer 322

its v.simple...



share everything with everyone..



express truly..



do atleast 2 new things everyday..



over a period of time, u will find the difference..

Answer 323

Get out of the race!!! and thats a great effort!

Answer 324

stand in front of mirror and practise by saying i am the best repeatedly again and again and again it will work

Answer 325

u just follow pooja answer. if u want to overcome...

Answer 326

be positive and do your BEST when approching thing...keep distance and at the same time be a good social being.....

Answer 327

by believing in oneself and realising that 'To Err Is Human'.

Answer 328

i have no girl friend i can understant english langause but can speak what ican do sugest me

Answer 329

By thinking about its good thing.

Answer 330

the simple way is "think superior of urself"......

surely den u can get rid of this thing....and never feel bad about it!!!

Answer 331

Never feel for loosing Always thing for winning makes superior then..............

Answer 332

just believe in yourself.





Warm Regards

Amit

Answer 333

positive thinking

Answer 334

Be aggresive and confident about what you say

Answer 335

simple....



u need to have self-confidence....and ...it comes from acheiving small things.



set small goals ..work on them.....

acheiving them ....automatically builds confidence....



then u can go on for bigger things...n u hav to be persistent...

Answer 336

Be confident.

Answer 337

by determination and doing things which boosts my confidence.

Answer 338

be confident about yourself.everyone is special in their own ways.try to find your specialities

Answer 339

be confident.. and think always you are on the top of the world..

Answer 340

one has to trust and respect and understand his self-worth.everybody is unique and has its own individuality.

Answer 341

self confidence pooja's answer is very excellent

Answer 342

only by believing him self

Answer 343

just on thinking positively.

Answer 344

ITS VERY EASY YAR,

JUST SEE FROM UR EYES THAT ITS UR WORLD, DONT THINK THAT UR IN OTHERS WORLD.

CHAK DE

Answer 345

confidence is one of methods,but sometimes you can cry or increasing your confidence

Answer 346

Simple...



By gaining confidence....



And confidence comes .... when we do something for the society...



Regards,



Simran..

Answer 347

think positive. Be bold.Respect others.

Answer 348

do something else to boost up your confidence .... for some time ... it will help

Answer 349

Think Superior ....

Answer 350

renu is right i fully agree with her

Answer 351

only by nutrishing your spirit and becomeing what you are

Answer 352

Think that your are the other person and he/she is you

Answer 353

by intelligence and skills.

Answer 354

due your girl friend

Answer 355

whhat

Answer 356

Be more confident.

Answer 357

by thinking him as genious. and others fools.

Answer 358

by cofidence

Answer 359

meditation

Answer 360

BY IMPROVING KNOWLEDGE

Answer 361

just **** the world!!!!!

& remember urself.

Answer 362

trust your self....and keep it real :)

Answer 363

my slp

Answer 364

nothing much................... quickly get a make over done.............

Answer 365

DNT WORRY ABT WAT OTHERS TELL ABT U OR EVEN IF ANYONE MAKE FUN OF U!

ALWAYS REMEMBER WAT U R!N WAT IS UR GOAL!

WORK HARD.

Answer 366

i dint get wat u asking