Question:
I just don't know anymore....please help?
AboveTheClouds_xx
2009-12-11 21:15:38 UTC
it's my last year in high school and my whole world has turned upside down. my grades are terrible, my friends are drifting apart, family is never there, and so many other things that i just dislike about myself. i don't know what's wrong with me and how i allowed everything to get this way. i don't even think i'll be able to get into college or atleast pay for it. kids at my school show off their flashy things that their rich parents bought them but i live in a small apartment with a single mother. i know kids in other countries have it worst but my heart is breaking and i'm falling apart. i just don't know what to do. i do go to therapy but they're not f*cking help at all. anyone, help?



sorry if this was long.
Four answers:
?
2009-12-12 11:07:46 UTC
If I were you, I would want to know why all of this had happened to me. I had a similar situation in my life where nothing was going right. I lost my girlfriend, my motivation for school, I had no money, and I had family problems all the time. The pain struck me so deep that I couldn't be satisfied with just blaming someone, not even myself. I started searching for an answer, a reason for everything that had happened to me. I stumbled upon many interesting things that seemed great at first, but eventually meant nothing to me. Then I stumbled upon this link: http://www.perceivingreality.com/

Ever since then everything in my life has fallen into place and makes perfect sense to me. I hope this link will help you, and here are some more:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7FEykDoaTHg



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFLi6zT3zrs&feature=related



http://www.illuzia.net/
end of days
2009-12-12 05:33:21 UTC
first just do not let ur heart off at any cost. to be sure at the end of my engineering i has 32 papers to complete. but now i am working good and settled well.

this happens in many cases and it is not that u should go to college immediately aftr studies.

i had a year in between my school and college as my scores were down as u say.

the thing that i want u to understand is if u let ur heart down then u cant make ur mind to think upwards. it too thinks low.

so make ur heart tight.

just think everuthing is to find the hidden talent inside u.

as said by most of the people there are talents in many people.

some come to know and win.

some come to know but dont have a stage to win.

some do not know and do not win.

in the above three where do u stand.

i dont know that ur mother talks to u about this or not.

but i sugges u to talk to ur mom.

just ask her what is the thing she feels differnt in u.

more than going to a therapist and they analysing u, u analyse urself.

find what hot stuff u have burning inside u.

take it out. make it out.

who can do if at all u do it?

put this into ur mind.

just u know something the best way to problem is to solve it.

just u created the problem.

messing up with ur grade points.

it has been over and u cannot go back.

so u should think about what u shoud do.



i do not know what country u r in and what are the educational system u follow there.

but there are nothing to be stopped and get stopped.



everything that ends has a beggining.

so u think about urself first.

make what is good in u.

make it out.



it is not that u can get a name only if u r inside a college.

so make sure where u are in ur problem.

and try to solve it by urs.

coz the papers in the exam should be filled only by urself and none can be into it.



sorry if this was too too long.



can ask me if u need anymore help
?
2009-12-12 05:32:03 UTC
I bet you would say that it couldn't get any worse and you may be right. But if you get thu today you will see tomorrow. and unless you could see tomorrow and see the future then you have no idea whats going to happen but as you implied it cant get any worse. All im telling you is to live until tomorrow and the next day and take one day at a time and when you Finlay get out of your slump you will have overcome and obstacle and NO ONE can take away from you!
Jay
2009-12-12 05:39:12 UTC
I felt like that before. See, my mom is a single parent with four kids, for me, yea, i see the other girls walking around with their UGGs and coach bags, at one point all my friends faded away and i only talked to my older sister..the school said that i had t go to therapy or I wouldn't be able to come back to school..i absolutely HATED my life, my grades started to slip and i had no idea hat to do with my life.



Here is just some tips to get your life on track

*stay after school for extra help

-it shows the teacher you care about your grades

-they tell you what is going to be on upcoming tests/quiz's

-you get back on their good side

*get a job

-baby siting is a easy way to get money

-ge a job at your local grocery store

-gives you a chance to once ina while go out

*join a club/activity

-inside or outside of school or BOTH

-join the drama club, a sport, human rights club, anything!

-you meet new people/catch up with lost fiends

*look forward to things

-hate mondays? find something to like about them, if its 'movie night' at home,

or make it a deal to make cookies and bring them in to work/school a day out of the week

*keep a diary

-it makes you really think about whats going on

-when you dont have someone to talk to, make it a point to write in it, about everything tht happened that day, every little detail, you'll be suprized about how you feel sharing everything


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