Should I end it?

Question

So my fiancee and I have been in a rough patch corn months now. We can't seem to Compromise on anything. I feel as though she doesn't want to discuss our relationship due to the fear of possibly splitting up. She los everyone in her life I'm all she has left. she refuses to want to become independent and it's killing me. She doesn't want to work things out. She sits around 24/7 when she isn't working. We have had more bad days than good. More tears than laughs. More Hostility than Peace. Yeah we love each other more than anything which makes this 10x harder for Me. She acts like we are perfectly fine and there isn't anything to worry about. Idk if it is me or her. Idk if i am just making this all up or She is refusing to expect the reality of our situation. I have no clue what to think anymore.

Answer 1

Put the wedding plans on hold and decide what to do.



Couples counseling is mandatory if you want to try and repair things.



If she refuses to go to counseling, or if counseling doesn't work, then you have your answer. Break up and move on.



Marriage won't make these problems better. It will only make them worse. So you either need to fix all these problems before walking down the aisle, or you need to end the relationship.



If you go ahead with the marriage with the way things are now, you're going to wind up miserable and probably divorced. And a divorce will be messy and expensive ... doubly so if you have any children by then.

Answer 2

It's time for you to break up- this is only going to get worse,if that's even possible.

There is nothing that is going to fix this, so just tell her it's over and you each need to go rebuild your lives.

She is probably suffering from clinical depression,and you both are in a passive aggressive dance that could never end. That's no way to live your life. Stop waiting for her to fix this. End it now.

Answer 3

this sounds more like a co dependent relationship than it sounds like love she is afraid of being alone You are being strangled by her this is not really love. You feel pity and compassion for her situation but the damage it has done to her has never been addressed and it is coming out in her behavior. she should seek therapy and you need to end this relationship for your own souls sake. it is not all in your head. She needs help more than you can give and marrying her will just make the clinging worse

Answer 4

It's not going to get better. I'm sorry. It's best if you end it before you get married and then have to waste money getting divorced.

Answer 5

"We have had more bad days than good. More tears than laughs. More Hostility than Peace"



The fact she doesnt want to talk about things and doesnt want to work it out

means you have 2 choices



end it

or

live the rest of your life like this



whats it to be?

Answer 6

You have to talk to her about this. Now. If she gets mad or upset, she just does. You're not "fine." You can't marry someone because you feel sorry for them or are afraid of upsetting them.

Answer 7

yep she's a b i t c h that's probably why she lost everyone.........................................................................................................

Answer 8

yup end it ! you don't love her anyways from what it sounds ...

Answer 9

yep she's a b i t c h that's probably why she lost everyone.................................................................................

Answer 10

can you picture a future with her?

Answer 11

Yup end it ! You don't love her anyways from what it sounds .

Answer 12

Yep she's a b i t c h that's probably why she lost everyone.

Answer 13

Can you picture a future with her?

Answer 14

Answering your question = YES.

Answer 15

can you picture a future with her?

Answer 16

can you picture a future with her?

Answer 17

yep she's a b i t c h that's probably why she lost everyone.........

Answer 18

yep she's a b i t c h that's probably why she lost everyone...........................

Answer 19

yep she's a b i t c h that's probably why she lost everyone...........................