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Question

so i havnt seen my boyfriend since august 12, the day before i left for college and im going home this weekend to be with him and my family. but one night im staying the night with. Im actually really scared to see him. I mean its been almost 2 months since we seen each other. I just nervous about everything. He says nothing has changed and that he loves me more now than wen i left, and i love him so much, but would if things are differant. I dont know wat im really asking but i just need help trying to figure this out...PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

Sounds like there is another guy at the college you are interested in!

Things will seem different if YOU want them to be.If it's love it's love if it's not you heart will tell you!

Answer 2

Spend time with him without sex to get re-acclimated before the overnight commitment. Make sure the time includes just talking, at dinner or walking. That will bring y'all up to date and you'll feel more relaxed and able to truly measure whether you have anticipatory butterflies or if it is that you are "scared" for some other reason like "growing apart". I'm betting that it is just natural excitement. You'll know better after some quiet conversation. Hope you have a good weekend!

Remember - always use condoms - they are the best thing invented for anyone having sex, especially for women. Women get AIDS more often than drug users or gay men. Preventing sexually transmitted diseases means less likelihood of cancer and better fertility when you do want to have children. Reducing exposure to partners through the use of condoms reduces certain cancers for women as well (like cervical).

As a nurse, I've seen so many women with health problems that are so shocked to learn that their health was jeopardized by the boyfriend that they love - all good enough guys that would not have hurt their girlfriends for the world. Always use condoms.

Answer 3

Just go and see him. Everything will be fine. If you see something has changed just tell him. There is a saying I like a lot because its true. It says when you love someone you never want to be appart from that person. But if you're never appart you'll never know how strong that love really is. So if you guys love each the same way everything will be fine when you see each other. Or even better :) Good Luck ;)

Answer 4

As I read your question I see the same thing so much that goes on in life with relationships with military men leaving and guys and gals leaving for college. It sounds like you are really enjoying the college scene as you should and deep down inside you really want your independence and the freedom that goes along with going to college and enjoying your youth. Look you are young, you and him both need to realize that you have gone your separate ways and it is best for both of you to enjoy your youth without a commitment. After you both finish school and you both mature more then and only then look at a commitment. There is so much to experience in your college life that you really should not have to worry about a commitment. This goes for him too. You both should see other people. Who know you both may find another person that fits you better in the long run. I see what you are asking you are asking for your freedom and independence and you really want him to experience it also. Do this and I feel like both of you will see that experiencing your youth without any boundaries is the best for both of you.

Answer 5

If you feel uncomfortable with the situation, talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If he really loves you, he will understand. If he gets mad and fights with you, he does not really love you but only wants to use you. Be true to your own feelings. Perhaps it is your feelings that have changed. Be honest with him. Do not do anything you do not want to do.

Answer 6

you'll know what to do when you see each other. Follow your feelings and go from there. Distance will make or break a relationship sometimes.

Answer 7

Relax. Enjoy your time with your boyfriend. Sounds like butterflies to me, unless there is something you are holding back on.

Answer 8

u shud just be urself...dont worri bout anything

cuz when u strt to worri bout stuff tht when everthing goes wrong



nd if he says he still luvs u...but even more now there sud really be nothin to worri bout



but when u c him u prob wont be tht nervous

Answer 9

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shut up

Move on

I don't care