Have you ever experienced the saying--if it seams too good to be true it most probably is.was it for you.?

Question

I did.He was the perfect man,areal charmer and everyone loved him.Then we closed the home doors and bang ,Found him to be ,abbusive,violent,into drugs n booze.I got out of that 1 pretty sharpish,me and our 8 month old son,whos now a happy 23 yr old man.And im in a relationship thats lasted 12 yrs to date,and quite content.

Answer 1

Yes I'm afraid so, I too had the perfect man, funny, charming, sweet, financially secure etc. Almost 4 years into our marriage I found out that he is a sex addict and had been sleeping with about 16 women throughout our entire marriage. Only been 4 weeks since I found. Glad there is hope that I can find someone else who won't treat me like that. x

Answer 2

yeah thats happened to me, my ex, at first, very tenntative towards me, caring and all that, then bang out of the blue, drinking all the time, wouldnt call me made no effort whatsoever then i heard he was cheating on me, so i dumped his sorry *** and am happy as now in my single life, ive always had trouble with drinkers, so ive given up alcohol and am waiting for a man who doesnt drink =) a few every now and then is ok but i am so sick of these drunken sleazes thinking they are the best thing that ever walked the earth... and think they can treat women like a piece of *** or a ragdoll etc and get away with it!!!!



sorry theres my expericence on "too good to be true"



congrats on your 12 year happy relationship, dont ever settle for less, you derserve the best =)

Answer 3

yes this saying has related to me but not in the same harse way it was for you...which i am sorry you had experinced such a horrible relationship..

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..i am currently falt hunting and saw this perfect studio flat, laminated floors, newly fitted kicthen AND all bills inclusive for £340pcm..

then on viewing it was a 5 bedroom house for £380 and looked quite dingy..:(

i was gutted took 2hour to travel to the location as well...and the agents excuse was ...'oh im sorry everything was a typo'



i mean how can EVERYTHING be a typo..they wasted my time...4hours worth of traveling for nothing:(

Answer 4

Mayby he was annoyed at your lack of english grammar.Seams,my dear,should be left to a seamstress.

Answer 5

good for you for getting out so quickly or your life would have been so much different