I feel like I'm being bullied/excluded.. what should I do ?

Question

I've been getting excluded from everything lately in school, for the past four or five months. I use to be in the popular group.. and have great friends, but now I don't. Since more girls came to our class this year, our big group sort of split up into small little cliques. I had 2 best friends like five months ago. I got mad at them for calling me mean names, and making fun of me to everyone. It just got annoying. Then they got pissed at me for it, since they thought I was overreacting. I stood up for myself. I am a really nice person, and I would never try and do something mean to someone intentionally. But when I get mad,. or something bothers me, I am going to show it.

The two girls in my class, got all the other girls against me.
They claim that they didn't.
But it was only them that were involved in what happened, none of the other girls were at all.
They wouldn't just all go against me like that.

Everyday in school now, I'm talked about.. left out, excluded.
It feels terrible, I'm always depressed at school now.
The girls do it purposely too, I get dirty looks from some of them.
Some of them even start rumors about me, and try to irritate me just because they don't like my presence.
I feel like I'm being bullied. I talked to my parents about it.
They told me I could transfer schools if I wanted to, but i'm not sure if I am down for that.
I've been to a lot of schools in my lifetime, and i don't really like being "the new girl" all over again.

Anyways. What should I do ?
I talk to my parents about it, but I would rather talk to someone else about it.

Please give me some good advice of how to cope with exclusion, I don't want to become worse in my mood than I already am.
Should I visit a therapist ?
I've been thinking about that lately, because it's more than just bullying I'm going through.

Answer 1

number one when you go to school keep your head up high and always smile start talking to people your not best best friends with ask them if they want to hang out and the whole transfer thing is not a really bad idea i promise being the new kids sometimes is a good thing you get a fresh start on life and people are so nice when your new because they want to know where your from and stuff lol trust me i've transferred many schools and my first time going to a private school everyone was really nice and ask me who i was and where i was from and stuff and i ended up making really great friend don't think im this christian freak but pray on it ask the lord what you think is best ask him to lead you trust me it might sound crazy but my aunt told me that and something told me what i should do and i'm living a really great life with great friends if you need any help just email me at [e-mail]

Sincerely, Elizabeth i hope i helped

Answer 2

You should know that your not alone and that lots of people are bullied. First of all these girls are obviously people you shouldn't want to be friends with so be glad that your not friends anymore because there showing there true colors and they suck. Know that you are a great person and try and make some friends in another class your inor an after school activity. these girls aren't the only girls your ever going to meet, there are other people out there. people that would treat you right and be a great friend. transferring schools isn't the best idea only because in life you need to learn to stick out your problems and not avoid things. leaving isn't going to help because another day there will be another uncomfortable situation for you, one that you won't be able to Escape. So keep your head up high and stay positive and know that your perfect just the way you are :)

Answer 3

Wow, I really feel for you : (



Exclusion is a horrible, horrible thing to go through

And you would know this by now, but girls can be very horrible too when we want to be unfortunately...



This will sound mediocre and useless, but keep your chin up! If you exert absolute confidence and continue to be the nice person you are (which i totally believe in!) then how can people keep saying bad things about you...



Are there any people in your class who've tried to befriend you or maybe talk to you?



Those girls were never your friends if they treated you this way, but I am positive that there are some girls (there always are) in your grade/class that are nice people and wouldnt be waywarded by silly gossip and rumours



Try finding those people.



If worse comes to worse, I guess a therapist can be an option. But eventually, those girls will get sick of their stupid behaviour towards you and it will calm down.



I really hoped I help. If you need it, Ill give you my email so if you need to you can talk to me XD



Be strong!!

Answer 4

The girls you talk about are considered the "mean girls" They just need to make other people feel bad because they want people to be equally miserable.

So act like you don't care, they give you a dirty look, act passive.

I've moved around a lot also, but each time I make more amazing friends. It sounds like your parents are trying to help.

You could visit a therapist but I think you if you think about it, this situation, you know what you want and or need to do.

Best of Luck!

Answer 5

Tell your teacher how you feel and have those girls suspended and find new friends and if they give you drity looks to you you tell a teacher that they wanting to start a fight they need to be taught lesson I was like you in my junior high school years and high school years I did not get respect I deserve from my classmates.