Think I'm pathetic? never been kissed before?

Question

hey, allright i am 16 years old and kinda ugly
http://img4.imageshack.us/img4/1749/sv101567.jpg

but the point is, I've never been kissed before and i'm afraid i'll never find a guy who likes me.. what if i'm 20 or something and never been kissed before? what if i end up as Susan Boyle WITHOUT THE GREAT VOICE???

and by the way... if i use Google or something (another sad thing) and search on "how to kiss" all i get is: "do what you want" and "you have to figure out what you like yourself"' but that's no help! what should i do? i want my first kiss to be romantic, or should i just get into a club flirt around and get it over with?

please help me!

Answer 1

well theres allways prostitution for you no hopes!

Answer 2

Oh my goodness. I looked at this picture and gasped. I immediately liked you! You are so pretty and look like a really nice girl =).

I have ONE piece of advice for you: Don't rush it. I am only 16 too, and I was just kissed for the first time a little while ago. The point I really want to push though, is this. I was kissed by my boyfriend, the thing is, we KNOW that we are going to get married. End of story. There is no other option.

You look like such an amazing person, I just want to make sure that you know that it does NOT have to be rushed. You will find the love of your life and kissing him will come SO naturally. You will be amazed, I promise, I was.

Anyway, good luck girl. And stay strong ;).

Answer 3

You're not ugly. You're pretty cute. When those braces come off you'll be a heartbreaker. Don't judge yourself by your peers. Most girls your age unfortunately are kind of loose. You will find a guy you like. You haven't yet because you're special and you have standards. Don't lower them just so you can have a boyfriend. There is no time limit on when to kiss or anything involving love. Love can't be rushed, it just arrives.

Answer 4

OK here is what you do i had this problem before i am a boy.



HINT AVOID A KID CALLED NICKEL HES A PERV



ok back to the point



when you try to kiss people you don't just kiss them. try being friends with them. once you are good friends and like each other then on the third date or something ask him how hes feeling

once you know that try to just kinda slowly get ready for the kiss.then after a while just kiss him when you leave and then keep doing that till you kiss each other in the "lips"

Answer 5

NOBODY'S first kiss is romantic. It is always very awkward, and you will probably end up not even liking the guy a couple months later. If I were you, I'd suck it up and go find a guy you like, ask him out, and kiss him. You will never learn how if you don't try, and you are wasting time sitting around.



P.S You are a very beautiful girl, and shouldn't put yourself down.

Answer 6

First of all, I think you're VERY pretty. I don't know where you got the idea that you're ugly. There are all kinds of beauty, not just one. And about the kiss deal, it will happen. Don't rush it and certainly don't go into a club and find some random guy. Give it time and your time will come : )

Answer 7

You're only 16. You're not ugly. You have plenty of time to get kissed. I'm sure the first guy you're with will appreciate the fact that he's the first. Just wait for the right one, is what I'm trying to say.

Answer 8

You worry too much. Likely you've never been kissed because you haven't found the right fellow. Boys your age are just a bundle of raging hormones, they will kiss and do whatever they can to just about any girl or woman. Wait until you are older and find someone mature.

Answer 9

i'm 14 - i've never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, am so ugly no one will ever date me, i AM susan boyle WITHOUT the great voice. i know exactly what you mean - google is not help with problems like that :(

your not alone girl, just hang in there, be strong, and one day you will meet your prince charming :D

btw - you are sooooooo pretty!

Answer 10

???????

Your Not Ugly!

your beautiful

and there's a someone for everyone don't be afraid of not getting a lover. Because love will find away. and don't go to a club and flirt with guys to get one kiss. you want it to be nice and with a guy you actually like.

and when you kiss just do lip to lip and no tounge is needed unless you get into the heat of it but don't go to far and have sex because that's sinful and not good.

Answer 11

i'm 18-2 many years previous, I even have in no way kissed or maybe cuddled somebody outdoors of kin (whilst i grow to be extremely youthful); i've got not had intercourse the two, and in no way had a boyfriend the two (lol) or a female buddy. You for sure basically isn't on my own perpetually, you will probable die in some unspecified time interior the destiny, which you basically isn't unsleeping to care approximately being on my own. besides; i are transforming into incredibly gentle being on my own. in case you're so irritating approximately being on my own, basically spend extra time outdoors, or positioned extra attempt into looking somebody. basically in view which you have no longer kissed or had a boyfriend, it does not recommend you're pathetic or something, it basically skill you have distinctive hobbies than relationships. that's particularly relative; because of the fact to a guy or woman who has somewhat some adventure in construction air planes, they are going to see me as pathetic as quickly as I attempt to construct one myself, which I even have 0 adventure at doing. that's an identical for relationship and intercourse, in case you have no longer have been given any adventure, people who do are going to work out you as pathetic, and perhaps even patronize you; basically like the air airplane builder could do in case you attempt to construct a airplane. So what do you do? Do what you do ultimate, and in case you opt to study something new, bounce in and enable the thick skin advance. good success, save your wits. EDIT: in case you're asexual, you mustn't be stressful approximately all those issues in touch with relationships; like kissing and etc. that's self-defeating to concentration on relationships and what comes with them in case you're actually not possibly interested in them. a answer could desire to be to locate somebody with comparable hobbies as you and basically be friends and spend time at the same time doing issues you opt to do; perhaps it's going to evolve right into a further courting, perhaps no longer. whilst it comprises loneliness, that's no longer consistently as much as you; so there is a few factor the place you may enable pass and settle for the certainty you're lonely and get gentle with it.

Answer 12

dont worry, I have at least 5 friends I can think of off the top of my head that are 20+ yrs old and havent kissed anyone, theyre just waiting for the right person, not a big deal, dont just go out and throw it away cause you feel like you need to fit it.

Answer 13

You know, you are whatever you think you are! If you think you're pathetic and ugly then that's what you are. If you think you are confident, beautiful, strong and desirable then that's what you are. We all have to make choices in life about how we're going to be. Society and the media would like to live in fear and doubt. But when you get confidence it doesn't matter if you haven't been kissed or you can't sing. It just doesn't matter.

Answer 14

Well im 16 and i've never had a girlfriend so no not really pathetic...



Just wait and you'll find someone great

most guys just want sex right now just like how most girls this age are a bit picky

Answer 15

I think when the time is right and you have fallen in love with someone, and he falls in love with you too, you will have the most romantic kiss ever, and it feel so wonderful and amazing that you will remember and cherish that moment for a long time. So don't worry about it too much, your time will come soon,



Best,

Answer 16

It will come when it comes, but you aren't ugly =]



These things are hard to "make" happen, other than going to clubs as you suggested but that's not really so great to be honest. You will find someone, it's just a case of when!

Answer 17

One honey your not ugly you can like your are but you cant be ugly

2 Ive never been kiss either and I think you should wait until its special and not rush things

Answer 18

dont stress about relationships, were only in high school, its not like they will last forever, and youll get a kiss. everyone wants someone. and im sure there are people who want you. youre not ugly. you should just put your hair down more and put a little less makeup and dress less classy casual and more funky. your pretty. dont think your not. and youll find someone everyone does. but its not like your twenty yet, so worry about that when it gets closer. (:

Answer 19

Your not ugly at all, your just 16 so big deal that you havent kissed a guy yet. your going to break hearts trust me, and i hope you remember what ive just told you when your older ( i bet you will laugh at this one day )

Answer 20

ive never kissed anyone either, but im 13 so O_o but your not ugly at all, you is beautiful :)



and it SHOULD come natural is what im told, but you never know, and it doesnt matter if you havent kissed, just make the first one all the more special :D



thats also what im told :P

Answer 21

You arent ugly (even tho I cant fully see your face in that pic) and you will kiss a guy! Be patient!!!!

Answer 22

You aren't ugly. I'd say another year and you will have kissed.

Answer 23

oh my goodness girl, your thinking about it too much!

no it's not pathetic! you just havent found anyone worth kissing!

Answer 24

like all things in life it will happen when its time.

Answer 25

dont rush it it will happen when you least expect it