I am 23 and pregnant with my gay best friend's babies. Now he wants to marry me , Is he really gay? What to do ?

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I’m so messed up and I don’t have anyone to talk to. I feel like here is the best place. Please bear with me. I just want to get this out my system. Please, read first the details and updates.Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks.

I'm 23 and he's 26. Yes, we’re having twins and yes, I'm keeping our babies. We both have great careers (he's an engineer and I just finished my masters in engineering as well last year). We have separate homes and are both well off.

My real problem is this : Will I marry him ? Yes I'm in love with the guy. Hell I've been in love with him since I was 14! but I'm still reluctant whether to accept or refuse. Is he really gay to begin with?

I was 10 when my dad died of cancer and was 12 when my uncle sexually assaulted me, forcible touching my breasts and behind. Luckily I didn't get raped cause my mom caught him in act. He's the only one left of my mom's family and I messed up their bond. I felt bad for that. After the incident with my uncle, I used to tense up whenever guys are around. It didn't help that I felt uncomfortable spending time with others gals cause I used to believe that I'm not normal like them. I didn't belong. I just wanted to be left alone.

My bro had no problem making new friends. Sebastian was one of his best friends. He and others used to hang out at our place. I never mingled with them but whenever I would pass by them, he would stare at me but never initiated convos.

Answer 1

"Gay" and "straight" are really fundamentally flawed terms. People like what they like. Whether he should wear one label or another is absolutely unimportant in the big picture, so you shouldn't spend too much time worrying about his orientation. Especially if he loves you and your children!



People often worry that an alternately sexual partner will be more inclined to leave them because they find other genders attractive. This is an extremely ignorant assumption if you consider that a straight person still has three billion other people on the planet to cheat with. Infidelity in relationships is a problem that starts long before the unfaithful partner starts looking for other people to sleep with.

Answer 2

Well, if you're in love with him and having his children I say go with it. People have been known to be bi-sexual. It doesn't mean he won't be faithful. If he wants to marry you, I would guess he is in love with you too. Actually it sounds like he is very much in love with you. Be careful that he isn't to controlling. If he has interfered with your relationships in the past, that's a little weird. Anyway, follow your heart it won't lead you wrong. Also, I am very sorry to hear about your brother. That must still be pretty hard for you. Congratulations on your twins!!

Answer 3

Was't this the script for All My Children last month?

Answer 4

do not get married to him . been here done that with a gay famous daddy. he will leave eventually. let him live his happy life and you move on however get him a paternity test and go o school so you have a career to fall on and get him o baby sit while you go and co raise his child. his way you remain to be besties trust me on this.

Answer 5

Why are you trying to email people??? lol

Answer 6

ne znam sta da ti kazem

Answer 7

lol