Love is divine,, love is like a full moon on a high sea, but still hate is very close to love, why?

Question

When a couple love each other..it's divine. But when the same couple separated for any reason (specially out of hate), where is the previously shown divine love?

Answer 1

love and hate are the same thing...it's just that hate is love turned selfish. and love can turn selfish if it has been hurt.



think of hate as self-love and you will understand.



the love didn't go anywhere, it just changed to love itself more than the other person.

Answer 2

huh good question... i think the actual hate is a mixture of the frustration + the love that did not work out + some passion that´s still ther + the thought that now you´ve got to start all over again kinda thing...



that is where the love ends up, in a blender of feeling and becomes a Hate smoothie...



sad aint it

Answer 3

Hate is an emotion similar to love because you experience extreme feeling. It's like having opposite ends of the spectrum. Usually one hates when they are deeply hurt or frustrated, or jealous. When that happens, you know that person has invested quite a lot of feelings into the relationship.

Answer 4

Without dark there is no light, without down there is no up, without evil there is no good. Because love and hate balance each other out and when there so much of one emotion, when its over there is an equal and opposite hate. Think about it, if you never felt that much love towards him in the first place would hate him that much when you broke up?

Answer 5

Because somebody's boundaries weren't defined in the beginning, then the boundary was walked ALL OVER. Lovey-dovey stuff only works when the RESPECT is true and the TRUTHs of each person are individually defined.



For more insight on where I'm coming from, check out my questions and answers. Maybe they'll help, maybe they won't.

Answer 6

Why is hate so close to love? As a very wise person pointed out to me: "Hate is a powerful emotion. To hate a person you have to care for them. And caring is an essence of love."

Answer 7

Its because of the duality of nature, life, yin & yang. Extreme love coupled with extreme hate. We always do the worst things to the ones we love. Think of it like a mafiosa who loves his family dearly but also lives with a lot of hate and violence.

Answer 8

love and hate are like two opposite sides of a coin...there is very little difference between them...every thing in this universe has something which is needed to be one another's opposite and a means of contradiction...i have seen in my own life that the person u love most...u hate that person that much...u have to accept the universal law of opposites...without it life would have ceased...

Answer 9

They both involve the same passion, the same intesity. They say "It's A Thin Line"

Answer 10

Love and hate are parts of life. If we really love someone, we will nevber hate him/her as they are always special to me.

Answer 11

your emotions are on a total rollercoaster with both feelings

Answer 12

HAte plays this dirty game on love. Love is divine and pure. But wat hate does is cover your soul with lies and anger. ...... Love is divine....