Does he like that girl still..coz i guess the girl likes him now:(?

Question

i am soooo much in love with my bf and he makes me feel he loves me too...
but the problem is that....he was in love with another girl 3 years ago.(when i was nt his frnd)..he proposed that girl but was rejected...and waited for her more than 2 years..this girl always avoided him...
but now we r very happy with each other...and when the girl came to know abt our relationship she floods his mobile with romantic messeges(forward sms).......everyday i find almost 3 sms of that girl....when i asked him if he replies to her ..he says he never replies to any of them...and he has no feelings for her now..i hope he doesnt lie....
but it is confusing...why will the girl send him messeges if she doesnt get any reply??i guess the girl likes him now ..
i dont know what he thinks of her now...
do u think ..is there anything going on between them??

Answer 1

Sounds like a classic case of she wants what she can't have. He was too available to her before. For people that "play the game" I guess that's a big turnoff. Now that he's happy with someone else she can't stand it. Hopefully your guy is being honest with you. Any rational person would be able to see through her sudden flip flop. If someone acted like that towards me I'd probably just be pissed that it took a new relationship for them to realize that they liked me. I doubt she even likes him at all, it's just the chase. If you continue to be worried about it I would just sit him down and have an honest talk. Tell him exactly how your feeling and be careful not to sound too jealous - no one likes an insecure person. Honesty is the best policy.

Answer 2

well im not saying dont trust ur man

if he says he doesnt reply then he doesnt but it doesnt hurt if u check his sent messeges too. This happends alot feelings do come back and they can always be confusing. the gurl doesnt like seeing ur man happy wit u so shes ganna try to take him back but thats just to see if she still has him. Many women dont realize what they have til its gone. she just got hit wit that reality. u can do alot to stop that lil passion of hers. 1 u can change his number. 2 tell him to send her a text saying to stop hitting him up or 3 **** the ***** up lol

either way anything will work lol

good luck ma=)

Answer 3

this is a complex situation. maybe your b/f went out with you in order to make the other girl jealous? was he only getting with you to make himself feel better and less rejected - knowing that at least somebody liked him? Regardless if he was only using you to get over his own emotions and redeem some dignity, he obviously is in love with you now. Ironically, this girl seems to have made you and your b/f together in the first place, and now she is trying to seperate you. You musn't let this girl tear you two apart. Tell this girl to leave you two alone, and find her own man.

Answer 4

You should trust him but watch out for her. She's obviously into him if she's sending him romantic tx. Talk to him and tell him what your worried about, its best to be open and honest with each other!

Answer 5

nicely... form of. i'm a woman and might in my view say that sometime, the reliable looking men might nicely be the reliable ones. now and back the undesirable ones can help looking undesirable. why does a guy seem undesirable? according to possibility he dosent brush his the teeth or bathe. according to possibility he dosent comb his hair. according to possibility hes obese because of the fact he sits on his butt all day enjoying video games. see what i propose? yet whilst the guy seems after himself and definitely tries, them it doesnt rely to me what they appear as if. in the event that they are able to help it yet seem undesirable, its a considerable turn off. in the event that they cant, who cares what they appear as if?

Answer 6

Could be. I would go with your first gut instinct. They never lie. And if you trust him 100% then don't question it. And if not, then it's not worth the heartache. Good Luck.