Bella Lady
2009-01-15 06:24:27 UTC
I was having dinner with my boyfriend sitting at a restaurant but at the bar last week. A few women there knew him and so they said hi. We were just starting to eat our meals when they started talking and kept on talking through most of our dinner to him. He turned his back to me to talk to them and never introduced me. They had there moments of sharing stories and I felt like I was a third wheel, just sitting there having nothing to say and feeling very awkward. He saw this and laughed at me. Thinking I was having a jealous moment but in reality I would have appreciated if he kind of included me. After finishing our meals one of the ladies just said is that your girlfriend sitting next to you and I just felt like I shouldn’t have even been there like they all were having dinner together and I was just on the side. I may have over thought that was kind of inconsiderate on his part as we were together having dinner, but I could not stop feeling uncomfortable. I just wanted to have a nice dinner and chat with him but instead I listened to the ladies and him all night. Then when we got home I was snappy to say why he couldn’t have introduced me and he said that he thought I knew those ladies because they have been out to places that we have been before. He is mister social and knows a lot of people when we go out and where as I am quiet and will sit back and not go around a room chatting with every single person…guess I’m in the wrong for feeling the way that I do.
Thank you for listening
Sincerely,
Bella