Question:
How much will plastic surgery cost to make me look attractive?
Anonymous
2013-04-09 23:31:28 UTC
Im a 18 year old guy, almost 19 and never had a girlfriend before. Im also very awkward and have a weird voice and a laugh so stupid and annoying that I've actually taught myself how not to laugh anymore unless its necessary

I dont need self esteem BS. I've tried everything i could to better my situation and try to grow confidence and be social. Ive even tried online dating and it resulted in 2 girls posting my profile to Facebook because they thought it would be funny. ive been rejected 9 times even though I've had confidence and tried to strike up a conversation. ive done my best and its clearly not good enough

im not muscle, im average. i look at myself everyday in the mirror and i just see an ugly individual who if someone ever found attractive would have to be mentally insane or would be paid or dared to like me.

i just think i dress nice and got style thats all. Im going to the last option i got and thats surgery, im currently saving up i want liposuction, voice surgery, chin enlargement to give me a chisled chin, fat reduction on neck and cheeks. How much will this cost and also, what additional reconstructive procedures do i need in addition to ones i mentioned?

No one in my life has ever found me attractive and no one has given me a reason to feel good about myself or rarely compliments me saying, "you look nice today"

ive gone to get profesional help like counselling and therapy but i still feel like disfiguring my face with a knife

i dont know where else to turn, and no im not trolling. Im also thinking of saving money for prostitutes, ive gotten to the point where i could care less if i caught a STD nor would i care if i was infected with HIV. im never going to find a girl who will actually love me, its so far fetched that this will happen.

picture of me (the sash is for an event) also the girl in the pic is taken and is a person i need to work with. To make sure you dont BS me, tell me what im wearing in the pic so i know youre telling the truth. I bet most of you will just say im attractive to just to make me feel better and give me "confidence". face it im a lost cause without face alteration

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Ten answers:
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2016-01-23 21:57:31 UTC
Skip ordering pizza and make one of them crusts at home: gluten-free nice potato crust, a quinoa tulsi crust that's also gluten no cost, or this low-carb cauliflower crust.
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2016-02-11 21:27:28 UTC
Halfway through your mealtime, stop and drink some water and decide if you are really hungry for the rest or if you are just eating it because it's on the plate.
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2017-03-11 04:35:35 UTC
Keep a reusable water bottle on your own desk to sip often. Keeping hydrated can satiate hunger along with cravings, reduce bloating, and hold you more alert.
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2016-06-09 18:14:04 UTC
Make your low-fat ice cream using freezing bananas and peanut butter or perhaps luscious cherries and chocolate.
SmOoTh cRiMinAL
2013-04-10 13:26:09 UTC
U not even ugly! U look normal to me. Why don't u just try to build muscle so u look more muscular?
2016-12-27 01:09:44 UTC
Use veggies like carrots or zucchini instead of spaghetti.
joyfullightdelasol
2013-04-10 00:13:06 UTC
Honestly, I do not think you need anything done surgically. I know it probably doesn't matter how many times I say that, because I would like a nose job and everybody tells me I don't need one, and I still feel unattractive when I look at my profile. But, I am also told I should model, etc. (I'm not saying that to toot my own horn, believe me...) so I suppose people don't typically find me hideous. In high school, most people did, though. I got made fun of all the time, people thought I was on drugs because I was pale and had horrible dark circles, I was awkwardly proportioned. When I got older, my best friend told me someone who went to our high school asked her, "what happened to her? She got hot!" He ended up eventually trying to date me...Strange, but what I'm saying is your body and face continue to change as you age, of course. And you have been working on yourself in many ways, both internally and socially/externally. You are SO far ahead most men, it's unbelievable! I just turned 25. It is so incredibly difficult to find men that care to better themselves. You're ahead of the men my age! The thing is, there is nothing wrong with your face shape! I think you actually are very handsome and that you have no reason to alter your face (in fact, I'm asking you to please NOT alter your face, as I feel a beautiful, KIND woman will absolutely love it for how it is NATURALLY). Like I said, I know it doesn't matter what someone else says if you don't believe it. But you have a girl right here telling you you are handsome and have nothing wrong with your looks. You know what the problem is? The awful girls you are talking to. I dealt with so many mean, CRUEL men and women at age 18 (and older, as well). The problem is that these people are hurting inside, and they need some kind of relief from their suffering, so they inflict suffering on others as a distraction. And they are truly just immature in every sense of the word. They are the absolute last people you should try to date, and the LAST kinds of people from which you should form any opinion about yourself. The whole Facebook thing, I mean...Literally people were doing that kind of s**t when I was in middle school/early high school. I think their brains must be malformed or underdeveloped...These are unevolved people and you have no reason to think anything negative they have to say (or anything they do) has value . Please do not risk your life or your health to soothe your loneliness because these ridiculous individuals made some immature statements and actions...Take it from a woman who has met a lot of people in 25 years: You ARE handsome and what they said is NOT accurate. I have no doubt in my mind that somebody WILL love you, and love you very much, every part of you, and your natural face. I beg of you not to change anything physically. I can clearly see there is nothing wrong. I have been rejected in my life, and I have also modeled. Everybody has different tastes, likes, dislikes, types, etc. Look for kinder, more mature and evolved women. Don't give up yet...My brother got rejected in middle school and didn't start dating his first girlfriend until a few months ago (he is now 22). And he is very handsome. He just never met anyone he thought was worth it. Mark my words, most couples you see together at your age will not get married and end up happily ever after. You are lucky to be able to take your time and not waste it feeling heartbroken over somebody at such a young age. My first serious boyfriend and I started dating when I was 15 and we broke up when I was 19 after living together and discussing marriage...I ended up heartbroken for another 5 years. It is a privelige to be able to take your time and find a QUALITY partner who respects and loves you for YOU, ALL OF YOU, your real face, etc...And a lot of women do not like buff men. Many prefer an average build. When we're lonely and don't have any solid romantic prospects, it feels like someone will never come. Somebody always comes when you least expect it. And you know what? You always find the type of person you think you DESERVE. So start drilling this thought into your head (or tape it up in your bathroom/bedroom/car/etc...that's what gets things into my subconscious): "I am lovable, and I am LOVED. I DESERVE a loving partner who loves me for me, heart, mind, body, and soul. I deserve a healthy, loving, respectful relationship". Honestly. It sounds corny, but affirmations work. Please believe me, I have no reason to lie to you. I would tell you if I thought something would improve your appearance. A lot of people just don't give compliments, especially to men, even if they do find them attractive or good-looking. But, you have a wonderful face, and nothing is in need of a change. Your eyes and features are lovely. The only thing you must alter is how much you feel you DESERVE someone wonderful.
2016-02-24 23:37:01 UTC
Use veggies like carrots or zucchini in preference to spaghetti.
2016-04-18 09:54:56 UTC
Make healthier versions on the treats you crave. These no-bake brownies will satisfy your chocolate cravings.
2013-04-09 23:33:03 UTC
i have heard plastic sugery is expensive but dont have any idea.


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