CRYING FOR HELP PLEASE HELP ME SISTERS?

Question

Hi sisters hope your all doing well and may God always keep you well and healthy and thanks a ton for reading please for Gods Sake read my story i am in desperate need of HELP or else i'm finished. Well i am a 21 year old and i live in London in UK and i am a young naive vulnerable transsexual i am a boy with a girls soul. I wish i knew why god made me like this and why i got punished for being born this way i am soo nice kind and caring i dont know why on earth i was given such a big punishment by being born in such a way of a girl trapped in a boys body, my soul literally is crying, yelling and screaming to get out of this boys body i am trapped in. Since childhood till now i have been bullied tortured of being this way. And now after 21 years i want my dream to come true i want to match my body and mind by getting sex operation and also i need to get laser and other treatments done to become a full girl and inorder to do so i need a job which i am not getting i am nice caring friendly but becuase of my transsexuality i cant get no job because they realise in interviews that i am girly so in that case they dont even call me back. So here i am sisters asking use for your kind help, you sisters have been blessed my being born girls from birth and may God always keep his blessings on you sisters but myself i am the unlucky few that needs to fight for my dream to come true but i need a job i have not worked before and i have just studied up to college. Sisters please help me i desperately need a job i need my dream to come true and inorder for that i need money so Is there any job you girls can help me get can you girls please recommend me in any job you have at the moment. I dont know what to do this is my last option i really dont want to commit suicide because i want my dream to come true but i need your help, please can use recommend me to any of your managers or someone that are willing to employ me i am nice caring and a confident personality pleassse help me, Thanks a ton i am leaving my email id here if you want my contact information if any kind of hope lightens [e-mail] Girls Your dreams have come true that use are girls today please make my dream come true i am young only 21 and full of dreams please help me if your not transsexual and are a born girl whom is willing to help thank you soo much you girls were born as girls and use are really lucky and i wish god keeps his blessings on you, you sisters are my last option of getting a job, no one is willing to help me becuase i am a transsexual, wherever i go they say you will only get a job by recommendaton because now days people only give jobs to people they know but i dont have no friends no one and thats why i am here today this is my last option please help me i am like your baby sister why do use want me to go through all the hell, just remember one thing if we sisters are not going to help each other and one another than who else is i have seen the dark side of life, thanks a million . May God bless you sisters.xxxxx this is my email id [e-mail]

Answer 1

Have you tried working in fashion retail?? Maybe finding a business that is ran by a woman would help your chances of getting hired. Men are intimidated by you because some are so close-minded about any sexuality/lifestyle other than the traditional..don't let them get you down! Also maybe you could tone things down for the work week and do you thing outside of work. I am NOT saying that you should buy manly clothes and and talk deep or any thing like that. Maybe if you dressed more like a feminine man instead of trying to make yourself into a woman, getting a job would be easier. Like maybe drop the make-up and super girly clothes for your interviews and work. I wish we lived in a world where you didn't have to change a thing and just be you and still get a job, but sadly we really don't! I know this isn't the same situation as yours, but I have never been a girly girl and I like to wear my jeans, t-shirts, and cowgirl boots! But at my new internship, I have to wear slacks, heels, dress tops, necklaces.. whole 9 yards. I absolutely hate it, but I am so lucky to even have the job that despite how uncomfortable I feel I put up with it for the time being. This job isn't forever- and neither will yours! I wish you the best of luck girl and I hope you get what you've always wanted :)

Answer 2

May I suggest that you dress the "manly" look, just for the day, so you can get hired, and stay hired? Save your trans-sexual lifestyle for after 5pm. You're more apt to find a better fit in the evening. I do hope you find happiness.

Answer 3

Phone the L.B.G.T. helpline and they will help you....this site is unlikely to do much for you..calling women "sisters" and "girls" will not impress...so don't do this in interviews.