Question:
Men do you find this type of personality creepy or attractive?
Scared of Lonely
2009-04-26 18:42:44 UTC
Men do you find this type of personality creepy or attractive?

is being a loner, who has sort of a submissive passive personality attractive to men. If she is vulnerable, soft spoken, gentle, quiet and only opens herself up to him and a small group of people...would most guys in general find this creepy or attractive?
Six answers:
Maurice
2009-04-26 18:53:25 UTC
This type of behavior is very attractive. The only problem is, a lot of bad people seem to enjoy taking advantage of your personality type for personal gain. You should save yourself for a like minded man or a man who is of a kind and giving nature. This will ensure a positive progression of your personality. Stay Away from Bad Boys!!!
anonymous
2009-04-27 01:55:34 UTC
1/2 and 1/2. It depends on the type of guy. Some guys would take advantage of a girl like that, and cheat on her since she isn't live enough and is probably boring. You don't want to automatically be submissive and passive to a guy. Submission is something he has to earn. Why would a girl want to be his doormat. Is her self-esteem so low that she feels she can't stand up for herself and be quiet. Most guys would find that unattractive. Now being gentle for a woman is a good point. But coupled together with all that other stuff is an advantage waiting to happen. It could cause a guy to get physical and kick the girls butt due to the aggravation it would cause with that quiet, fake stuff. Yes, it would seem very creepy, and it is creepy but guys would still date her and use her and take advantage of her, and when their done, dump her. Why not! She's not gonna complain about it anyway. Girls like this suck in my opinion. who wants a robot. This person is setting themselves up. This girl would fit in the muslim religion very well, where men treat woman just like that. Shut up, Submit and Obey. Be quiet and don't complain about my 3 other wives, because she definitely is not going to be his #1. Wow, this type of personality is probably not very pretty and has had their spirit broken. That is sad. Beauty comes from within. The things you mentioned sounds like your used to being used and you like it. If that's the case, than cool. Some people like being dogged. There is never a limit on the amount of Dogs waiting for some new tail. poor you. You better grow some balls. If I were you, I wouldn't date. Your really not ready at all.
?
2009-04-27 01:52:16 UTC
Don't consider that creepy at all, because someone isn't energetic and super social doesn't make them creepy.



If they talk to themselves, or sit in the corner and rock, ok that is creepy,



But just because they are a quiet soft spoken doesn't make them creepy,



As far as attractive goes, well would have to speak to them, they still need to be able to talk.
?
2009-04-27 01:49:41 UTC
Not creepy unless there's actually something creepy about her/you (I'm assuming...). Quiet, unassuming people can be really refreshing, actually. I'm very extroverted, and I like happy, fun people, but there's nothing like a quiet conversation or even sitting in silence with someone you can tell really will listen and care.



Just my two cents...but I definitely don't think that based on your description, there is ANYTHING creepy about that type of personality.
?
2009-04-27 01:55:33 UTC
I think it attractive
mcjlsat
2009-04-27 02:10:21 UTC
mysterious



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