BOY TROUBLE :( HELPPP..!?

Question

ok, please dont judge me. okay well im still in love with my ex but i haven't seen him in 2 years and i miss him sooo much.. but i have a boyfriend right now which i dont love as much as my ex, and i dont know what to do? should i wait like a dummy for my ex (which i dont know if were ever gonna be together again) or do i try to be happy with my boyfriend? but its really hard cause when im with my boyfriend i cant help but think of my ex. i just miss himm sooo much. i love him.HELPPP! i need some advice. Am i crazy for still loving my ex?

Answer 1

Your not crazy, don't worry:)......I would suggest you stay with your current boyfriend, cause believe it or not, over time you will SLOWLY get over your ex. It takes time and patience. Having the bf you do now will speed up the "getting over him" process as well. If you break up with him, I don't see how sitting and hoping and moping will relieve you of the depression of your ex. Wait it out. Fall in "love" again :)

Answer 2

Its hard to do but amybe you need to just take some time to your self to get over you ex, its not fair to your boyfriend now, that whenever your with him your thinking about another guy, i mean how would you feel if your boyfriend was doing that to you? Just take some time to think ;)

Answer 3

I was in this situation , i think right now all you should be single for awhile , just go out and have fun.

Then you ll realize whats really the best thing.



And keep in mind, if meant to be it will happen =)

Answer 4

Well i was in the same situation............ I would say you need to take time for yourself!! But if you decide not to do that then you need to make sure that your bf now knows how you feel about the other guy bc no its not fair to him. but you also need to let your x bf know how you feel bc if he does you never know it could change his mind..... But remember all things happen for a reason =)

Answer 5

its hard to get over an ex but if you know its not going to work out, then why would you put your heart on the table for him? so that he can stab it with anything sharp while the guy who loves you is getting hurt as well?





please help me with this, PLEASE!!!

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